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OK so I have been "Liking" this guy that I work with for a couple of weeks. I find out that this weeek he has a crush on me too. He isnt happy with his Gf (relationship) but wont break up with her becasue he said that she would "Kill herself", he kind hinted that he would cheat on her with me. Like he told me he wants to hang out with me, then he said we should wait to hang out until him and his Gf break up and he will date me. Then he said we are going to hang out this weekend. I thougt, ok cool hang out on Saturday. Then this morning early (during school, like he snuck on the comp.) he left a message online "yeah friday i realized i am going to my mothers birthday party and saturday night i am going to my fathers house, but we can talk online or his cell or something. ". He left other messages later in the day so maybe he really couldnt hang out..lol I dunno I thougt it was kinda weird that now he cant hang out. I had to switch hours on Saturday in order to hang out with him, now I have to work Saturday morning...lol. What do you think about this.

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Well the thing is now we're not going to hang out for awhile so I know that Sunday is not on. Well I usually find that if you hang out with ur Ex right after breaking up, they can cause arguments and he said the same thing. We are still going to talk and were frieneds...but not hanging out for awhile is kinda sucky.

Ok I talked to My Ex yesterday and everything was going cool. Talking about school is here and other stuff. First he tells me that we can hang out, on some Sundays ( He has off) but other times he wants to hang with his buddies and that's cool. So I tried making plans with him for a Sunday in a week, because I kinda felt like he didn't to want to hang out for awhile( I wanted to hear his response). I know that if you hang out with your Ex right after breaking, it can get bad after awhile. Anyway, his response was "I'll see If I'm not doing anything", so then a couple minutes later I said "Ok, do you just not want to hang out in awhile, because Exs that hang out right away usually don't remain friends and they argue...." And he agreed and said he was thinking the same thing and that he needs to get things situated like driving/getting his license. He said that we will still talk in school, talk online. I told him "Yea it will be like how we met each other last year, talk in school, online and hang out later", he thought it was a good idea. Is this a good thing that were doing this, not hanging around for awhile and get into friend mode, well I wanted to do this. Him and I have tried being friends with our previous Exs and when we hung out with them we argued with them and we didn't want things in our friendship to get sour . What do you think?

Yea we dated for 4 months, and we both decided to break up, and I just got over it(the break up). Thanx for your advice, Yea i know not to call him more than once lol. We never get the chance to catch each other when we call, and I havent talked to him in a week. Well I only called twice and he called back both times, and now im not gonna call anymore. Were still friends, its just hard for us to talk, since he has no internet and he works alot. But anyways Thank you.

My Ex and I broke up a week and a half ago (we agreed to be friends)...and I miss him so much. He is very busy lately and working and we havent hung out since about a week ago. I called him on Thursday to say "Hi" since I havent talked to him (then) for a few days and he was working, then he called me back and nobody was home at my house. Then I called him on Friday, he was working and then he called back again and I was working, so its not like were ignoring each other. If he had the internet I it would be eaiser to talk, but his parents keep forgeting to hook it up. So now I might only see him when school starts(in a few days). The reason why we broke up because school is starting(our Senior year) and he said that he wants to focus on school. Also that during school he said that he would be very busy with school and work and there wouldnt be time for us to hang out. I agree, because school is more important than having a boyfriend/girlfriend and having your grades fall and work is important becasue you want to save money. The thing is that he promised me that we would date again when the school year is over, and that is far. I have seen couples get back together after being broken up for months, so maybe it is possible? I can see him and I being friends, and maybe dating again, but hopefully not in 9 months . Any advice on my situation, like does it sound weird or normal or anything...thank you.