Breakingthegirl

Yea i was wrong, but my friend brought it up also. But I should of advoided the subject.

OK so he didnt bad mouth me. Thanx, it kinda made me confused becasue my friend was being vague.

Well we are more friends than him and my Ex are. My Ex and I are suppose to be friends. My friend tells me that my Ex and I should get back together, but He wouldnt say it if my Ex is talking bad about me...(?)

Well a good guy friend of mine and I were talking about my recent Ex ( The same Ex from my last couple posts) and my friend didnt really tell me anything that I didnt know already about my pain in the butt EX kinda friend. Except that I asked my friend if my Ex had said anything bad about me and my friend was vague about the answer. My friend does talk vague at times, he will bring up a subject or change to another. My friend responed to my question by saying " I dont think so, if he did , I wasnt listening to him and its between you two" I said, well did he? and he(my frien) said " If he did I wasnt listening , its between you two." I am kinda mad becasue my friend has been honest to me, why wouldnt he answer this simple question. Another thing is I dont want my Ex talking trash about me. What do you think?

The thing is I always feel like I dont want to just drop him. I dont know why, I have mixed feelings for example I dont want to talk to him Well maybe he finally realized he was being a jerk and now hes going to treat me better I know Im hopeless[/b]

I tried to not talk to him, he comes and flirts with me. Its kinda hard to ignore someone thats flirting with you, lol. How can I Ignore him. Thats why Im so confused about him

Well what I dont understand is that he puts the moves on me and flirts with me. He wants to be with me in the future when we graduate high school. But as a friend hes weird.

OK well If you dont know my sitaution I posted a topic a couple weeks ago...this is the link. link removed . Its a little long but it goes along with this. Anyways, I am friends with him..but I am starting to doubt our friendship, heres what happned. We hung out yesterday, and It was going well. Well he wanted to rent a move and at first he asked me if I had money for it, I said yes, and also I asked him " Are you pitching in" he said, that hes buying a DVD for himself. When we get to the store he decides that we each pitch in for one movie, that is fair. Then later we are ording pizza and he doesnt have enough money and he askes me if I want to get the pizza and he pitches in like 5 bucks, at first I wasnt sure but then b4 he ordered he askes" So you want to get the pizza" . When the pizza gets thier him and his sister didnt even thank me for the pizza, well he does after I remind him. Anyways at the end of the school year he told me ( about a month ago and wrote a note for proof) we are going to get back together when school is over and Im going to move with him. He tells our friends that we wont be getting back together. I asked him about that and he said he said it becasue he didnt want to hear there Crap if he told them that we were. I also asked him why does he want me to go to FL with him and no one else( well his friend lives in FL) and he said " Becasue I love you". Anyways at his house we were kissing, we are friends with benefits. Then it brought back to me what he did to me on Tuesday so I asked him about it and he got mad, but then after he was fine with it once I dropped it, then we fooled around. Well now I know that he dumped me that day becasue like he said b4 " He doesnt have time for a gf becasue of school and working monday thur Friday" well I knew that anyway. So then b4 I left his house, I asked him "Are we friends with benefits" becasue I felt confused and he said "No becasue it screws up the relationship" and it was his idea in the first place to be FWB. Then I asked him if he wanted to hang out next week and he said " If im not busy" and its like we only hang out when he asks me. Is this a bad friendship? This whole thing is messing me up It hurts me bcasue he has changed so much and he isnt himself anymore.

Well, he wasnt talking to me today until like the last 30 mins of school, and he was acting normal/flirtung/joking around.

We are both in high school...but what I dont get it what he did to me. Right now he hasnt talked to em and I havent talked to him, but I dont get why he did this.

OK my Ex and I became friends after our break up ( we dated for 3 and a half months). We broke up becasue we would be busy with school/school work and work that he thought he wouldnt have time for a relationship and i thougth that yea thats true becasue I work too and we wouldnt hang out much. Well in school he asked me to hang out with him. We hung out and we started kissing(he kissed me first) and stuff(at his house) and he told me that he missed me, and I missed him too. Well we decided to get back together(after a week and a half being broken up) and he said "I realized I made a mistake to dump you", then everything was fine we were acting normal as we were together saying "I love you" and kissing. Then I see him on Tuesday in school (monday was a vaca. day) and he is ignoring me, at this point I thought we were still together. He continues to be kinda friendly but still ignore me. I wrote him a couple notes in class and he doesnt read them right away. Then after class ended I walked with him (we were both going the same way) and he wasnt even walking with me and I asked "Are we still together" and he said "I dont know, just go to class". Then a half hour later I see him i the hall and i ask "Whats going on are we together" and he said "I dont know what I want right now" and then I said "well I want to know I dont wanna be hanging(I said it friendly) and he said that I made it seem like that we wanted to get back together and it was both our ideas, and I told him that. The he said " I dont know what I want right now" and I said "Then whats going on" and he said "Were friends now ok, go back to class". Then after he wasnt talking to me much, but in our last class he was talking to be being normal. But today he hasnt talked to me at all! Whats going on?