In the past I felt it wasn't working but she begged me to stay and work at it. Can't believe she can go to a next man straight away without taking time to readjust.She said it was over before but we acted the same and slept together too.
she is a loving girl and i blame myself for not accepting the love. It seem she had an idea of what love was - it meant being intimate having sex being close. I mention to her once to come down and just chill no touching but she said there be no point cos she wanted to get close. In the last few weeks i stop sex just to develop the other side of the relationship but i guess she thought i didn't love her cos i didn't want to have sex with her.
She is good at her job has loads of friends can't believe she was insecure with me.
since the break i'm the only one who has contacted first then she replies - i thought it be easier for her to contact me cos her life is ok while i'm still hurting.
Cydeways, how did you overcome your insecurity?