PSKgivesmebutterflies

i know when i lost my dad i pretty much shut everybody out of my life for about a month and would not talk about him to anybody. if somebody brought him up i would get mad or just cry uncontrollably. thats probably what she is going through. when she comes out of it, hopefully she will come back to you. she probably just needs some time to herself to grieve and remember her mom. sorry that u and ur girlfriend are having to go through this. good luck with the situation

I'm sooo sorry to hear about your dad. I lost my dad a year ago so i know exactly what u are going through we were VERY close. he was in a car accident and broke his neck and had to wear a halo. they screwed the screws in too tight to his skull and when they went to take them out, he started bleeding out of his head and went into a coma and never came out of it. it really makes u appreciate ur family and friends more and the short time on earth that u have with them. i think it will make u a stronger person in the long run. i wouldnt even talk about it and if it came up i would just cry, but ive found that talking about it makes me feel better. just remember the happy memories u had with him. im sure he loves u very much and once again im sorry u had to go through that

thanks so much for the replies!! i was worried nobody would reply and i would just be stuck lol. it really means a lot to me!! im thinkin about tellin him how i feel more and more now...when i do, i will post what happens...yikes...

I have this problem with this guy that I really like. It's pretty complicated, but here goes...I think he has a girlfriend, but I'm not sure. I haven't talked to him in a couple weeks and the last time I talked to him, he said they go out off and on again and that they were broken up at the moment. His best friend also told me they broke up. Well, I talk to him on the internet sometimes and he will IM me and ask me to come over. When I go over to his house, we either lay there and watch a movie or we fool around or we lay in his bed and talk. I can talk to him for hours and he always makes me smile. He also flirts with me a lot. Then when it's time for me to go home, he says he will call, but he never does. He has only called me a couple times to ask me to hang out. I have called him before and sometimes we will make plans or just talk, but most of the time he doesn't answer. when i bring it up he just says his phone was turned off or he was sleeping (he works a lot) It seems like the only way to get in touch with him is on AIM. Does this sound like an excuse, the truth, or maybe he's with his girlfriend and doesn't wanna answer the phone? We have never talked about feelings and he has never just come out and told me that he likes me or wants to date me, but when we're together, he acts like he really likes me...is he just playing games with me or is he playing hard to get or does he just not know what he wants? this is driving me crazy!! I'm so sick of wondering if he likes me...should I just come out and tell him how i feel or just live my life wondering what could have happened or leave it alone and see if it goes anywhere? i have known him for a year now and i have liked him since the first day i met him. we really hit it off and flirted like the entire time. there was a period where i had a bf for like 7 months, but this guy was still all i thought about, so i broke up with my bf just so i could talk to this guy again. i have tried to get over him but it seems impossible. ive never liked a guy like this before. he means everything to me. anyway, im just wondering is he shy about this stuff or does he just not like me? why is he sending so many mixed signals? any replies would help me out sooo much i need all the advice i can get on this subject especially from a guy's point of view, but girls can help too. thanks so much for takin the time to read this