tonybriant123

I know and i hope im probably wrong here but my gf who is 16 has a 26 year old brother who kinda supports her atm cos of her rough time. He has a wife and 3 kids that she see almost everyday and she likes em all great. But its what she has been saying to me lately that has really made me think, just like a few times she was just saying to me, how great her brother is, so i just agreed and thought nothing of it, and then she said more n more, n then yesterday afternoon her bro bought us all a pizza for the football after me n my gf went out in the back garden and i go ur bro is alrite aint he, like cos he bought us pizza, and then she goes 'Oh yeh, what do u like him' and then she says, 'Oh yes!, i can see it now' and i was like 'ur not sposed to think of ur bro like that let alone me...' Does neone know whats going on here, does she actually fancy her brother or am i completely wrong...

Firstly id like to thank anyone that replys to this as i really need advice on what to do. My gf's mum has been suffering with lung cancer for some years and had become worse lately and had to go into hospital for a vital operation, but just the other day she found out that her mum had less than 5 days to live and she rang me sounding very upset, at first i couldnt understand what she was saying, i then txted her after and she told me her mum is going to die.. I then txted her saying that i will be here for you if you want to talk or sumthing, i then texted again saying do you want to talk now?? i got no reply. I havent had a reply since and i dont know how to get her to talk to me, we're only 16 and her dad no longer lives with her so its even more difficult. I just want to know how she is and whats going to happen, am i going to get to see her again?? What should i do now, i need advice, should i just wait for her to contact me, i cant write her a letter or nothing simply because she wont be living at home at the moment because i think she will be staying with her sister and i dont know where she lives. Every time i try to ring her fone or try to txt her i get no reponse, would it be best for me to just leave her alone and just let her know ill be there if she ever needs nething?, neone else in the same situation? Replys would be very much appreciated..