bogie78

Thats pretty much the what I've been going by so far. I know its going to be far from perfect on the first night and for a while thereafter until we both get comfortable. I'm pretty sure we'll be waiting until we actually get to the honeymoon location the next day. After our conversation the other night, she is actually expecting a comfortable/nice set up with the music and all. She really wants to be relaxed because her hymen is completely intact. I do really well at relaxing her for everything else, but she feals she needs the little extra for her to be comfortable that night.

We're coming up close to our wedding and thinking about the honeymoon is stressing me out. We've known each other for about five years and been together for the last two. The crazy thing for most people to believe is that we're in our mid twenties and have been waiting to have sex until marriage. We've both waited to this point and nether of us have had sex before. This is very important to both of us and I want it to be very special for her. Of course we understand the mechanics of the issue, but I'm seeking advice for making it more comfortable for her and for side stepping possible pitfalls people tend to make. What music is best, candles/scents, techniques, etc. We're staying at a nice resort for the honeymoon with the big tub and everything. I'd really appreciate any constructive advice anyone can give. Thanks

My girlfriend has recently developed tonsil stones. The big problem about these things are, that they give you really bad breath. She brushes all the time and does what she would normaly do to keep her breath fresh. Its not enough because they still make her breath smell bad. I only have about 30% of my sense of smell on a good day and it still really bothers me. It's suggested to clean them out, but she's very uncomfortable touching the back of her mouth with anything. Also she says it hurts alot to gargle with mouth wash. I'm trying to be supportive and not push her to gag herself or anything to get rid of this. Its just that everytime we kiss I smell it and it turns me off from wanting to continue kissing her. I don't make a big deal out of it to spare her fealings and I usually don't give her any indication that it's bothering me while we're kissing. I'm not sure how to deal with this. Should I push her to get past her uncomfortable feelings about removing it herself, or should I do something else.

As much as I love living with her, we may have made a mistake moving in together this early.

My girlfriend graduated college before I did. After I graduated I moved to her home town to continue being with her. We both had made the decision to wait until marriage. Since I've been here our relationship has continued to progress wonderfuly. The only problem is that about a month after I moved we started to experiment sexualy with each other, but we never had intercourse. We noticed that our relationship still had alot of growing to do and didn't want our sex life to become a crutch, so we stopped. I believe we made the right decision, but after having it, I still wanted it after our decision. Two months later I was forced to move out of my appartment and couldn't afford to live anywhere else, we decided to go ahead and get an appartment together. We spent alot of time staying at each other's places and thought it wouldn't be any different. Now that we're living together we want to be closer more often. I actually spent the night on the couch last night because there was no way I'd be able to sleep wanting her and being so close to her. It's driving me crazy. We want to continue waiting until marriage but it may be the death of me. Alot of our conviction is faith based, which also throws me out of using other means to satisfy myself. Go ahead and laugh, I would to if I was reading this.