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Basically you could check out my old post "move on or wait" but here is the jist of it. She broke it off with my because she had feelings for her co-worker and she was confused. Now I don't know if I still have the same feelings for her as I did back then. There is a part of me that want to talk to her, and there is a part that don't want to. I'm just so confused on what to do. Please help!!

After 2 months of NC, She finally called today. I didn't picked up because I was too scared of how I would handle the call. I don't know if I should call back?? Any suggestion. I'm am really confused. Thank you all for your comments

That's true. It's just that I was very good friends with her before we got together and we used to do these stuff to each other. I can't get her off my mind. I know that I should not email her and I don't think I will. It's just so hard right now... Thanks to everyone who reply, it has been very insightful.

It's been a month since I spoke or any kind of interaction with my ex. I know her finals is coming up for next week. Is it ok if I send out a little email wishing her luck on her tests?

Hi, First time posting anything on this forum. The situation I have here is this. I known this girl for 6 years of my life. We were friends of each other. We had mutual feelings for one another about a year ago and just started dating recently. Everything was going great until she found out that one of her co-workers who like her from before and who she also like still had feelings for her. She was ignoring the co-worker before we were dating because she thought he was going for one of her good friends, but she found out that it was not true. She calls me up one day to tell me she is not ready for a relationship and to tell me to date other people. Now she is all confused and stating that she likes both of us the same. She say she want to concentrate on school because this is her last semester. When I heard the news, I was heartbroken. I didn't know how to react, for all I know, I thought we were through. This is my first real relationship I have ever been in and I really thought we could been something special. I then later got an email from her stating she did not see me as a bf. She just saw me as a friend and could not get pass the friendship barrier. First she tells me she likes both of us the same and now she saying she just wants to be friends again. Ripped my heart right out of my chest. Right now, I am confused, I really trusted this girl and I don't know if she is just telling me this so I can move on or if this is what she is really feeling. I fell for her deep and I don't know if I can trust to be another relationship again. I know she will not date her co-worker behind my back, she is just not that type of girl. Should I let her go or should I continue to hang on to what I believe could be the best thing that have ever happen to me?