Hi, well I have a friend who is exactly like that she's been my 'best mate' for 9yrs but she never wants to go out-everytime I ask her to mine she won't come, we do live quite far apart-but nothing that a lift from her dad or a bus journey wouln't solve. She always says she hasn't got any money, can't get here etc but then she meets people she doesn't know off the internet who live halfway accross the country. To be honest now I'm just a bit fed up with it and don't even bother asking her out anywhere. I suggest you do the same with your friend, then maybe she'll realise what's she's losing and ask you out somewhere. Friendships can't be one sided!