SeaBisquit

i think your gf is mad because she wants to help you. she can't help you if you can't share your feelings with her. on the same note if something was bothering her wouldn't you want to know?

yes i'm a girl. and he didn't exactly call me his buddy his friends call me his buddy. so i'm confused. they use to call me his girl but now they call me his buddy. i'm not sure i like this title.

i'm not a guy and i might be wrong here but i think it means he considers you one of the guys. he thinks your cool.

he said that he was taken things slow and that he would never get married again.

hi, what does it mean when a guy calls you his buddy? does that mean their just friends? or more?

so should i ask him how he feels about me dating other guys?

hello, i just started dating this guy a few month ago and he's already stated a few times that he taken things really slow and he's not into getting to serious. i like the guy alot but don't want to get hurt down the road. so i'm wondering it i should bail out early. before i get hurt. or do guys usually say these things when their starting a new relationship?

hi lily,

i had a ex that did the same. he would get mad or jealous if i dressed really nice. he would neever dress up nice himself and i always thought that he had a low self-esteem. i thought that it was also his way of controlling me so that no one else would look at me. i didn't think that guys really liked it when their gf's were being look at by other guys. i guess it's all about how much confidence you have in your relationship.

hello, i was just wondering if guys really do hate it when their gf's dress better. i lost alot of weight and i was invited to a company holiday party. i want to dress really nice for the party and maybe a little sexier. but i don't want to make my new bf jealous, but i'm feeling really good about myself and i want to show off a little bit.

that is confusing and it's hard to say what could be going on with him. but i have to question his honesty, it seems like he is hiding something from you.

omg, i find it hard to believe that guys are insecure about their bodies. guys are always talking about the size of their balls. lol

nooo that's where you guys are wrong. imo girls like it too. we just never get a show.

hah ha i didn't read the shower part.

lol. darkblue i don't believe you!

lol. that is why a guy should cook dinner, go cut down the tree, bring it home and decorate it, take care of the kids clean up the house. and when they are all done strip before they go to bed.

It just isn't fair. girls do this all the time for their guy. we even plan the whole thing out. but i have never heard of a guy doing it for a girl. guys think about it...we would like to see you strip after a long hard day a work. why won't guys do this???

i would take things slow. that's great that you to are hanging out again. but i wouldn't put to much stragie into it. just let it flow for now.

jaiva,

can you honestly be in a relationship without sex? i just find it odd that after you confronted him on all of this he tells you the relationship was easier before you to had sex. that send up big flags in my mind.

ok jaiva,

i know this is all very hurtful. but he's railroading from telling you the truth. how much time is he spending with this other girl? is it more time than he is spending with you? and sex should come naturally it shouldn't be a problem if you are in a healthy relationships.

well i met him through work so i have kind known him for awhile. i guess he has liked me for quit some time. he was just waitng for me to break things off with the other one. but i hear everything you are saying.

yes i have seen alot of stuff on tv where pole dancing is becoming vey common for young couples. i have a friend that is putting one in her bedroom

OMG! i was in a relationship that was very similar. for your own safety break free!

it could just be a rebound i'm not sure. i don't know if i'm completely over my past relationship. but it does feel good to be with someone else.

this is my opinion and i may be wrong. he's feeling quilty for having two woman. so he's trying to choose between the two of you. i'm sorry but that's what i think.

ok, so i met this new guy. and right off the bat we clicked. it was awesome and i'm probably moving on him to fast but i can't help myself. we had sex on the first date. i know that's a big no no. but hell he is sooo good looking so far i have no regrets. i never really liked sex all that much but with him it's different. now i want to take things further and do something exotic. like a little strip tease or something. he he

i know you guys are gonna say i'm moving to fast but i'm having fun. i haven't had fun in a long time.