SeaBisquit

I think there is a difference between being nice and being too nice. You just have to know when to be nice and when not to be.

somehow I need to gain more confidence in myself.

I would be alot more down to earth. dress casual, less makeup. I feel I have a good personality but I'm insecure about my looks. I get compared to his ex alot and I think this is where my insecurities are stemming from.

hi people, this is going to sound a bit trivial, but really it's hurtful. I find that I can't really be myself around my bf. I feel that I have to look and act perfect when I'm around him. My friends all tell me I act differently when he is around and I feel I must impress him. I won't let him see me without makeup and I always dress really nice for him. He has never seen me in sweats or a t-shirt. For some reason I feel if he see's me being anything less than perfect he won't like me. why do I feel like this?

hello everyone, I just found a note from my ex's now gf. It has her address and phone number on it. I have been looking at it all day wondering if i should call her? I'm curious to see what she looks like and where she lives. I thought about driving by her house just to check it out. I probably shouldn't care but I can't help but wondering what his new gf looks like. should i call her?

Why is it that girls are always trying to make sex more exciting??because it just seems like girls do more than guys do and i think it should be equal.

split up was because i use to have a drinking problem.

hello everyone, i just spent a weekend with my ex bf. we still see each other and everytime i get ready to go see him i tell myself. ok, this is it. this is the weekend that i will tell him how i feel and that i want to get back together. and then..... i never do, i'm tooo chicken. so we had a really great weekend and when i kissed him goodby i told him that it was a great weekend and said thankyou.. he said no thank you for coming to see me and i almost cried and blurtted out that i loved him. so no i'm home once again i didn't accomplish much.

i agree Cbutterfly boxers definitely the hottest, spandex not to bad either. don't see to many guys wearing them tho. any volunteers???

this is a bad thread.....hehe

i made the mistake of going pantyless one day while wearing a dress. i slipped and fell on some ice in front of a major department needless to say i ended up putting on a free show and drawing quite the crowd. Never, ever again will i go bare butt, granny panties are for accident prown girls like myself.

guys do not wear tighty whities, it looks like your mommy is still buying your underware for you!

what are the signs of herpes? i heard it comes and goes is this true?

i have a few pair of g-strings i use to wear daily. use to because their so damn uncomfortable. so now their worn only for the special times. lol

thank you DN

yes this is all quite sad. i have never been in this kind of trouble in my life. i was very distraught after my divorce. but yes i am doing what i need to do to get back on track.

i got arrested for public intoxication and i wasn't handling my finances and got into alot of trouble with that. i go to AA. i got better i'm on the road to recovery.

i haven't drank since we broke up. but i kinda got into alot of trouble while drinking.

your right it's not comfort. it's very painful. we broke up because i did some stupid things. I went thru a really bad divorce before I met him and started drinkin alot. I ended up in rehab and he couldn't handle it. he says he needs to now that i'm not going to drink anymore.

What if I get rejected? thats what I'm afraid of so I think I put myself in a comfort zone.

hi everyone, this is my first relationship posts. What are the chances of getting back together with a guy if the breakup was mutual?? We broke up about six months ago and still see each other. We started seeing each other one week after the breakup. The breakup wasn't bad ( for a breakup I mean) Now we get along better than we did before. I want to move back in with him, but I'm afraid to talk to him about it. I don't want to ruin my chances of getting back together. But I'm tired of living apart. So should I ask him or should I wait until he asks me?

yes their is a whole lot more to the story. my ex husband abused me physically and sexually. i wish i could erase him from my memory and my childrens but i know that isn't possible. as far as his disturbing family i didn't know what i was getting into at that time. it was hell egtting away from him. he was a lousy husband and father.

Hi, I am a mother of two teenagers a 15 and a 14 year old. I divorced my husband 10 years ago and have raised my children all on my own. He doesn't pay child support and doesn't call my children on their birthdays. He sends them a small gift certificate for x-mas and thats about it. This is all trivial. The reason I left my husband is because he comes from a very disturbing family. His brother is a registered sex offender. He raped a 13 year old girl. The girl was a best friend of his own daughter's. I left my husband in fear that his brother would someday molest my children. Now I fear even more. My children want to visit their father and their is nothing I can do to stop my kids from seeing him. They will be staying with him for a week. any advice or thoughts? thankyou

thanks everyone,

i know he is bad for me but I still need the support from you folks.

yeah well that was only because he was drunk I'm sure. which is another question that going thru my head. he was probably drunk off his butt!

i don't get how guys can consciously look at themselves in the mirror every morning without being disgusted with theirselves. what kind of morals and values does a guy have that has two woman? I'm really sorry that happened to you azul.