luckyguy16

hi, ok well me and my girlfriend yesterday we planning to stay after because of a retreat which was at 5 and we get out of school at 2:50. then my girlfriend came up to me and said her friend jus asked her if she wanted to go driving around after school until the retreat and i said do whatever you want because i wasnt in a good mood with her to begin with because the whole day she was treating me like crap. she would yell at me in front of her friends and make me look like crap in front of my friends. for example, she was talkin to her friends and i grab her checks because i was only kidding because thats how i show my affection and she flips out on me in front of her friends. so i told her dont talk to me. well anyways at 2:50 she was asking me should she go with her friend i said go but she said no then i wont talk to her at night. and i said yea because your gonna go with your friends and i'm gonna hang out with my friends then(because then i realized all her friends where going an none of mine where going). then she said then forget about iti said ok then she said bt i wanted to go and i said then go and it kept going for 10 minutes and i received nothing but attitude then i got annoyed and we started yelling at eachother. then it was agrred that she'd stay but wouldnt be happy about it. i told her i think its not right that its either we hang out with her friends or im by myself because i ditch my firneds for her but she cant do the same.then we began agruing again but now infront of my friends. which i got asked about today. after my friends left me and her began to fight again i said harsh mean things and she said why are you mean to me when im tryin to be nice and i told her because when shes mean im nice and when im mean shes nice. then she said she'd call her mom to pick her up after work which was at 5 and she called around 3:30. then my mom came and i said well give you a ride because your not waiting here by yourself and she said whatever! and she came in my car slammed the door and wouldnt say anything to my mom. i told her you stupid ***** dont you dare disrespect my mom. and she got out of the car and i told my mom to go home. so when i got home i felt extremely bad. but still now we dont talk and we dont even look at eachother and everyone is saying how we fought. so im guessing we basically broke up which i really hate because i care about her alot but of course i have to come to her dont think thats right. what do you guys think. please tell me because im desperate i wish i can talk to her but then she'd be geting her way again. please tell me what you think. thanks.

sounds like this is girl is........ i dont even know if were can discribe this but ill sum it up as mean. form what your telling me this girl didnt even care about you. you want whats good for you this girl is obviously not good for if she is not even trying to help you through this break up. listen to your mom. moms never want to hurt there sons but always want to see them achieve. listening to your mom and geting closer to your family is exactly the thing that is going to pull you through this state. Family loves you and will never hurt you. your ex obviously never cared about you but your mom does. listen to her. try to get over this girl she was nothing but bad. to find out if she even cares about you try not to come in contact with her see if she even says anything to you because if she cares then she'll see how your doing and see if you doing better. trust me this girl is nothing but bad news especially if she doesnt even take a relationship seriously saying" its only 3 months" it doesnt matter if its 3 months or 3 days you go out with someone because you care. she didnt so forget and trust me you'll have a better life =luckyguy16

hey, if you were rejected then that probably means she only sees you in the friend way which is very good because friends are ALWAYS going to be there. but having your friendship go sour might mean that you asking her out came out of the blue and she was feeling uncomfortable. going out or asking someone to go out should never ruin a friendship. i suggest you continue to become friends with her and never let the friendship go, you never know maybe not now but maybe soon she can find out you are a great person and a charming individual and see you way more than just a friend. but you HAVE to respect the fact that she wants to be friends dont go off and be all mad about it. im sure she didnt mean to hurt your feelings. because everyone knows rejection hurts. so just continue to be friends and never let that friendship die. -luckyguy16

hi im a new member on this web site i was recommended by a friend. i've heard great things from this site. hopefully i can also help and also get help in return.ok anyways. My girlfriend and I have been going out for 11 months. i honestly have very very strong feelings for her. She means alot to me and i would never do anything to hurt her but she disagrees sometimes.well i also have some trust issues with her. I dont know why i keep havingsome dreams about her and other guys.i had a dream earlier this week about me geting in the car with her and i look in the back seat and theres some guy hidden back there. Me and her get in an argument and then we get to her room i see a condom in her thrashcan and then look in her drawer and see a bunch of condoms. That dream had a really big effect on me i was crying in my dream and woke up with tears in my eye. i told her about it and she thought it was ridiculous. now i had a dream last night about me going to her house and there was my bestfriend and his friend at my girlfriends house.i thought nothing of it but for some reason my girlfriend wanted me to go plant a tree(which is weird because she dont care about trees) but i did it anyway but i noticed my best friend's friend wasnt with us so i went back to her house and there she was pulling down his zipper and i was extremely mad and beat him up. why do you guys think i have this dream? could it mean shes doing something with other guys?why is it that im only recently having these dreams now after 11 months? well hopefully you guys and gals can help me out if not then thanks for reading.