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of course it can. but ppl r different, don't let one bad breakup ruin the rest of ur life. u gotta hang in there, don't give up, so ur next relationship will be better.

u should give her a call. that way u will not regret it. u never know. go for it. life is too short.

thanks for all the advices, guys. i really appreciate it.

that depends, relationships r different, some of them r fast, some of them r slow. when BOTH of u guys r comfortable woth each other, u will know it. don't rush it. be patient about stuff like this.

a little while ago i passed him in the street i think he kinda was waiting for me to say something ... thats happened a couple of times..

i think he likes u also. he is shy about it. u guys should try to get to know each other better and see what happens.

Good luck

i think u shouldn't get back together with her. apparently the reason u guys broke up is still a problem for u guys. and if u guys don't work this out, what's the point of getting back togethre and relive what happened 2 years ago?

Good luck

here's the thing, my dad is getting very very pushy. he is constantly talking about me preparing for college. i am not saying that i don't care about college, cuz i do. and i know that i should prepare and get ready. but he is ALWAYS saying that i should do better and better, and now it's getting extremely annoying. i know he wants what is best for me, but i think he is overdoing it a little. he nags too much.

i got "A"s and "B+"s for the term grade and it didn't seem to satisfy him. it's like nothing i do is good enough. and i am trying my best. i studied during Xmas vacation, for almost 3 hours a day(after Xmas, of course)while other ppl watching tv and playing video games.

i can't take it anymore, what do i do?

i think u should be more gentle and more careful next time.

i don't suggest u be friends with her( i don't think ut's gonna work), and apparently ignoring her is not effective. talk to her, say that it is over, stop wasting each other's time. u shouldn't continue to contact her cuz she brought agony and misery in ur life. just try to end this as soon as possible and hope she won't bother u anymore.

Good luck

this is not a healthy relationship. the best thing to do is to end this. a relationship is based on trust and honesty and mutual respect. based on what u said, u guys r being a little childish ( no offense)

u will find someone better

Good luck

was she ur first love? the first one is always the hardest. hang in there, u r not alone.

btw can u tell me y u guys break up? u r still in love with her.

if u continue this relationship it's not fair for either of u guys. this relationship is not healthy, i mean u said u hope she dies. u must end it fast

Good luck

Good post.

 

Life is what we make of it! Dwelling too much in the past will stop us living now.

 

Life will always have its ups and downs and we sometimes have to pick ourselves up, dust down and get back in there!

i second that, that's very optimistic

i think u shouldn't worry about how much is the gift, but rather how much thought did u put into it. something special, doesn't have to be something expensive.

Good luck

well, then that person is shy or not ready to express her feelings.

how do u know for sure? can u give a little more info?

maybe she is a little shy, give it a little time and see what happens.

btw is this her first relationship?

yea, u should consult with her before u make any moves like that.

think about this---is ur ex worth risking ur relationship with ur current gf?

i agree with Day_Walker. when girls say a guy is hot, they mean his appearance, not personality. different kinds of girls like different types of personality, but there is only one kind of "good-looking"

i think a little "hard to get" is fun. but if a girl overdo it, it will just seem like she is not interested in me and i will give up.

my deepest sympathies. i heard over 20,000 ppl were killed.

i think eventually she will break up with that guy and then u can make a move, just be her friend for now, and make her realize how great u r.

i agree with Caldus, she is being a little needy. the fact that u r seeking advice proves that u care about her very much, so talk to her about this seriously.

Good luck

maybe, but i am not certain about this. she did asked for ur picture, but that could also be a sign of friendship, my female friends asked for my pictures before and i am sure it's nothing.

not all guys r like that, unfortunately many of them r. don't give up, u will eventually meet someone else, much better than that two-faced cheater.

was that ur first relationship? u were vulnerable cuz of ur relationship with ur parents, u wanted to feel needed. next time, don't let anyone take advantage of it

anyways, i hope u feel better, pink