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  1. what should one do
    Yeah I suppose it really sucks this time of season ... I can't wait until the holidays are over ..... 0X
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    I still feel sad at times about me breaking up with my girlfriend of 3 years. I have mixed feelings I don't know ... she married someone already and oh well I just move on i suppose .... am doing the NC thing which I think has helped, and I suppose it works for her 'cause I have not heard from her. One side of me wants to talk to her the other side I just don't .
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    thanks to all for posting... I have accepted our break-up, and the not contacting ex stuff. I have also accepted her getting married. I am taking care of the "me" Question though ... do you guys agree that if her family calls me I should answer the call? right? Right! Thanks
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    good call flex .... the boxed in comment needs some addressing ... I live in a 250sq. foot apartment in New York City (pretty small). I am working very hard trying to keep myself a float ... and my ex at the time had no money ... and a part time job which she later lost ... I literally I was both emotionally and phsyically 'boxed in'.
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    thanks Flex and ticklebug for your posts. And thanks to enotalone for allowing me to read and view other people like myself going through the good and bad in relationships... I have been abstaining from 'attempting' to speak to her or her family via mail, phone, etc... I am sorry but like ticklebug says 'you don't know me' ... well it is the same with no one on the posts really know my situation... it is not always black and white. 8)
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    Thanks ticklebug and moderator ... a tad bit more info. My ex is 32 and her "husband" is 26 he is still in college and she is not currently working.... I suppose the best thing for me, without digging a deeper hole for myself is to just not contact her. I don't know I just feel a little concerned about "this marriage". P.S. Her family loves me ... Do you guys think it would be ok for me to keep in contact with her family?Like on holidays? This situation I created really sucks. "Had I known this" I would have never "broken up"
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    So I (33) broke up with my girlfriend (31). We went out for 3 years. I really loved her. She lived most of the time with me in my small apt. I felt "boxed in". I never really discussed my feelings with her so I "broke up with her. So after our break-up she met someone (26) or someone else met her ... and ... after 3 months of "dating" got married! Is this normal.
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    I have not inquired nor spoken to my ex since her birthday in November. I have spoken to friends and they agree that this is a bizarro move on her part to marry a guy from Sweden who is in College. She is not working at this time and is living with him I suppose. Does anyone ever heard of a situation like this? Thanks
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    FYI - I am 1st generation American -my mother is from Spain and father from Germany. I supose Maasikus is right I should and perhaps leave the situation alone. Let them live in harmony. I spoke to her mom today and she sobbed telling me that SHE GOT MARRIED!!! to a guy whom she met 4 months ago! I suppose time will tell. I am just dumbfounded that someone can all of a sudden get married like that. I am sorry but still a little worried. Regards
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    Hello everyone I am 33 and was dating my ex (age 32) for like 3 years. We broke up say ... 3 months ago. She was living with me in my small apartment in NY City. She really loved me. I am so consumed working, in debt and had a hard time needing some space and said I want to break up with her. She then met someone from Sweden who is a 26 year old student living in CT here in the US. She decided to get married to this guy! I can't believe it. How can a woman who only knows someone for 3 months get married? I am afraid and sad at the same time. I feel any attempts to "get her back" are null and also I feel she is getting used by this "romantic guy". I feel this guy is using MY EX to get a green card to work in the US. I love her but not sure about the "next step" Sad in NYC
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