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  1. I have truly found the love of my life, sorry but i just love saying that. Anyways here is my question when we are in public or in private when we are not walking around and holding hands we tend to do this thing where we rub our hands togeather and keep moving our hands around. So my question is does anyone else do this or are we just weird, and also what do you think this means.
  2. So, I have fallen madly in love with my girlfriend. She loves me back, we say that we love each other every day and we mean it. We just celebrated our 2 month anniversary, we talk every night online and we sit in the parking lot after school for a half an hour or more. But recently people have started talking that were too close, that were moving too fast and that we shouldn't get close because i leave for boot camp in about 3.5 months. Some people think we will take it too far and end up hating each other when i leave. Other people think that we take it a lot farther than we do. I don't take all of this personally because none of their talk is true. I know that my girlfriend doesn't believe all that they say either, but she does seem to get mad once in a while about everyone butting in on our business. We both know they do it because they care about us, but it is none of their business what we do. So here is my question should i talk to the people and tell them not to say anything around my girl friend because she might get mad. My girlfriend says she doesn't want them to know she hates when they talk about us. im just not sure what i should do
  3. well MetallicAguy i don't think she just wants to be friends because she has said she wants to be around me, and when we are togeather and we have to leave she never wants to, i feel the exact same way about her. but i am trying to stay on her parents good side so i usually tell her she should leave so she won't be late getting home. I have never been in this situation before she is the first person i have truly cared about and even thought of saying "i love you" to
  4. it not that i doubt it belinda i truly love her, i just know that in 5 months i'll be gone and i don't know what is going to happen after that, and i don't want to hurt her
  5. Its me again, i am the one who posted a couple weeks ago the "What should i do" here is my current problem, the girl in the last post, i am in love with her, i am happy everytime i am with her, and anytime i think about her. We don't talk online as much due to we have more going on with our lifes so we have homework and other stuff, but we sit and talk for an hour or more after school everyday. one day i told her i was starting to fall in love, and she said she never thought she would ever be as close to anyone as she is with me. well a couple days after that, i was hinting that i wanted to tell her that i loved her, and i chickened out and i have no clue, i truly feel that way i just couldn't say it. It could be because in 5 months i have to leave for boot camp, and we might never see each other again. then i asked her if she wanted to say it first (and by it i was hinting at "I love you"). she said she didn't want to jynx what we already had. i still am not 100% sure of what that means. she is the first person i have truly cared about. i am so happy and lucky that she is in my life. any help or suggestions on what i should do would be greatly appreciated
  6. if anyone else has been in this situation your help would be greatly appreciated
  7. I would like to say thank you to all of you for your advice. i know i must follow my heart in my decisions. in the end i know we will make the right decision and i will be happy for her no matter what the decision she makes is
  8. For the past month, i have been going out with this wonderful girl who i am falling head over heels for, and she feels the same way about me. We would both rather be with each other than any one else. We talk usually about an hour after school each day, and then later that night for another 2 hours online. We spend a lot of time togeather, and when we aren't togeather i am always thinking of her. I can honestly say that this month has been the best in my life. On valentines day i told her i was falling in love with her, and she said she never thought she would get as close to anyone as she has to me. The only problem is i am a senior and she is a junior, and in 4 and a half months im leaving for boot camp, and then it is off to school for 2 years half way accross the nation. I don't want to hurt her by breaking up with her before i leave, but i also realize that im going to be gone at school until the end of her freshmen year of college. Then i have 6 years of active duty after school. I don't want to break up with her before i leave because of how much she means to me, but i don't want to hurt her because i will be gone for 2 years except for vacations. And if she finds someone else who gives her as much joy as she gives me, i don't want her to pass up that chance just because she is still going out with me, who she will never see. Sorry if this was all confusing, any help would be greatly appreciated
  9. were going out friday night yippeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
  10. the yes or no was whether or not she likes me but that doesn't matter because she just said that she does like me im editing this just incase i didn't get the point accross
  11. well actually im talking to her right now and i don't want to seem weird considering the last part about the whole yes or no thing was only last night and i have been hurt before
  12. i meant Fahrenheit when i said 20 degrees
  13. There is this girl at my school that i really like and when we went to this performing arts convention we started to spend a lot more time togeather we sat togeather. At one point as a joke she even sat on my leg. Since then we went to a christmas party separate but ended up spending the whole night having a tug of war over a stuffed cat. We didn't just pull back and forth she had her legs on top of mine and she tried to give me a tittie twister. and this went on for an hour. after the party we started to spend more time togeather at school talking and goofing around. then we started to talk mor online since then we talk almost two hours every night last saturday we went to a movie her me and two other people i drove everyone there after that she was about to leave and she said something to me and we ended up talking for an hour in the cold and it was about 20 degrees. since then we got into a talk about her friend telling her in the hallway something i said to her friend. since then i told her how i really feel about her. and she says she nows someone who likes me but won't say who. so i guessed a couple other people, she said no. then i asked if it was her and she said maybe. she kept making up excuses why she would say yes or no. i don't know if i should risk our friendship and ask her out on a date or just stay friends?
  14. You might want to try asking her friend that you know. She might have gone out of town or maybe she answer machine problems or she has a big project to do at work so she comes homes and crashes on the couch and gets up and leaves again in the morning.
  15. There is this girl at my school that for the past couple of months I have really started to take an interest in. We talk during speech practice, and before and after school. She got my e-mail from a friend so she could find out what I got her for a secret santa gift for speech. She figured out i had her when she asked me who i had and i didn't say anything. Of course i didn't tell her what it was. At the party she opened the gift and really liked the gift i got her, Van Helsing. My gift i got from someone else was kittens in a bucket. That is a inside joke that a couple people and i get. Any ways she was holding on of the kittens and i reached over and grabbed it and pulled it, we were sitting on the couch togeather. Well she didn't let go of the kitten so we got into a tug of war. I was just pulling as a joke to get it away from her. Then she put her legs on top of mine. It really surprised me that she did this. For some reason it felt right in some way. So we played tug of war with the kitten, by the way it is a fake kitten just incase anyone from PETA is on here, for almost an hour we were 2 of like 5 people still at the party at that point. Then the party was over. and we talked a little bit and then we left in separate cars. since then we have spent a lot more time talking and joking around. We have spent a lot more time talking to each other online. We spent 2 hours talking to each other online a couple nights in a row. I got some coupons for the movie theater from work so i asked her if she had seen a particular movie yet. She said no then she asked why? and i said i got the coupons and i was looking for some people to go and see it this weekend. and she thought about it for a couple of seconds. and asked if she could come. That of course was what i was hoping would happen so i have found a couple of people her best friend and one of my friends. her best friend knows i like her. but she won't say if this girls like me or not. so i don't know if i should ask her out on a official date as in just the two of us. because there will be 4 of us going to the movies as friends. and i don't want to ruin our friendship by trying to make things more than friends because i have done that several times already any advice would be greatly appreciated
  16. there is this girl i like from my school and we really didn't talk until we went to this performing arts conventions. At this conventions we talked quite a bit, and during the main stage shows we sat togeather and watched the plays. we joke around now all the time before and after school and the couple classes we have togeather and during pep band and the basketball games. recently we have been talking online a lot more, the past couple days we have been talking for two hours online. we can joke around and have a good time. i want to ask her out on a date but i don't want to possibly ruin our friendship does anyone have any suggetions thanks
  17. the thing is i get so close to being completely over her and all of a sudden she reappears out of nowhere at ball games or around town. she really doens't talk to me or anything but i just don't know what to do. i know nothing is going to happen between us. and now i really don't want anything to happen between us. but there is something still there. i think it is a void because she was the first lady i truly cared about
  18. this girl i like at my school is also a good friend of mine we have gone out on a date and had a really good time. we saw a movie and then talked for 2 hours at dinner. we talked mostly about friends and family. i don't know if i should push forward a relationship with her or just stay friends. i really care about her. it has been my experience when i just try to let things progress on their own nothing ever happens. ive been hurt pretty bad before any advice would be greatly appreciated
  19. there is this girl who i like from school and we have been friends for a while. last week i asked her out to a movie and dinner. the movie was ok and then we went to the most fancy restaurant i could think of....Mc Donalds. we got there at 9 o clock. we each got a pop and sat down and started talking about our families and friends. all of a sudden they turned the lights off. we took that as a hint to leave. At that point it was 11. Time just flew bye so quickly. as i was taking her home we talked about school and friends and other couples. we were having a great time. then when we got to her house at about 11:45 we went inside talked for a little bit and i left. the entire date we were laughing and having a great time. but when i went to left i couldn't tell if she was unhappy or just tired. i want to ask her out on another date but i don't want to lose our friendship any thoughts about a second date and/or was she just tired or bored?
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