Jorae

Just introduce both of them and unless your girlfriend is completely controlling, doesn't trust you, and has no self-confidence everything should be fine. It's no different then if a girl having a boyfriend and friends that are boys. She wouldn't cut off the friendships or her boyfriend so neither should you (if you are ever in this situation).

Hey anyone out there have good tips for female masturbation? The only place that is completely "safe" for me to do it is my bedroom so baths are out automatically. And also since i'm not 18 i can't buy a vibrator so please when giving suggestions no toys. I normally only to clit stimulation but i can't seem to orgasm anymore... any help would be great appreciated

Well... I went to go ask him and it's too late. He's moved to Florida until who knows when. Oh well I guess. I mean if it was meant to happen it would've, right?

I have to agree too, he's just not that into you. I mean if he liked you like that he would throw that stupid "rule" out the window and go for it. I have a GREAT book that you should read. Well, every woman out there should read it. It's called He's Just Not That Into You. Greg Behrendt wrote it and it's fantastic. He basically says that if a guy likes you, he will do everything possible to have you. Nothing matters (ie rules) but having you. Sorry for this news. But you know, if he's a jerk except when he's alone then he's not good enough for you so don't waste your time. There are much better guys out there who will like you and be nice even when around his friends. Good luck in whatever choice you make.

Just take a chance. If she had it bad for you, she might go out with you. Although what you did could have pissed her off enough and hurt her to where she wouldn't want to be with you. Just ask her out. If she says no apologize for being rude to her and then try again.

Ok... during New Year's the guy that I like was there. There was some flirting and joking around. When it came time for the ball to drop, he was saying that he needed somebody to kiss. I don't know why I just didn't go up there, but I wasn't sure. After the ball dropped (and nobody kissed him) he went around giving out 'new year's hugs'. Well, I received three, long hugs with the backrubs when everyone else got one short hug. Should I have just gone up and kissed him? Or was it better that I didn't?

Thanks for the advice! I think i'm going to "stick my neck out". Wish me luck!

Ok.... so do you think I should go and ask him out or wait for him to make a move?

Ok, so I've liked this guy for a while even though he's two years older than me. When I'm someplace he is, he comes and seeks me out. He is always just so nice, funny, and sweet to me. Well, I saw him again at New Year's and he was going around and giving everybody a hug. He gave me three, extra long hugs complete with the back rub. Nobody else got more than one short hug. He was also telling me to "stay sexy". Now I know he was drinking and that that could change his reactions but he was only this way with me. Even when he'd play the guitar and sang he would make long moments of eye-contact with me. I just wonder if he really likes me in a possible romantic way. What do you all think? Please help!

Ok, so i like this guy he's 18. I saw him a lot during the summer because he's my best friends' brother's friend. We would play tennis all of us and he would flirt with me. Anyway, i went to where he worked and he found me and talked to me the entire time i was waiting, even giving me a tour of everything. Then just a few nights ago i saw him again at a coffee shop. He came in with what i believe is his girlfriend and what can i say, i was upset and felt like a fool. Then he left her and came over to talk to me. He told me about his new job and his exact hours of work. Then he said that i should work where he is working, he would even put in a good word for me. So i'm just wondering if he likes me or not? I mean why else would he give me his hours and want me to work where he does? I'm not very good at picking up on the "signs" and i know that he's not serious with his girlfriend. I was just wondering what you all thought. I mean i know he's taken and i won't go after him, but if they break up then should i persue him? Is he flirting with me and does he even like me? I'm so confused.