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Theres this girl in my class... She goes to the back of the class with her friends to work...theres a guy back there that she sometimes talks to...some times she hits him and when she passes by me she says she hates him an hes a _______... I wanted to when girls do that is that: 1= an everyday kinda thing, where girls are always sayin that kind of stuff 2= does she mean it...does she really hate him 3= is that a sign of liking someone

oh communication is only bad in person....like on MSN we talk a lot so thats not a problem.... there is another thing...im starting to get the feeling that she is like this with everyone she knows as a friend...and not only talkin this much to me... askin out...i should do that in person right???

same here(were gonna have a christmas dance buts its the usual)....it would really help the guys in tellin who the girls like b4 we go in head first askin them out if they had dances like that.....

ya im in the exact situation you described....i used to talk to her more but now that i like her i've become i bit more shy around her and dont say too much either does she... Im not sure if she likes me though...i wanna ask her out to the movies or something....just not sure wht to do, just say "hey, have u seen ****...no...u wanna come with me to see it " and should i also say "ask if **** and **** wanna come..." any suggestions thnks

thx for ur reply... that was wht i was sayin about my parents...but not as transportation becuz she uses the bus a lot and so do i so we could easily get there by bus....thing is my parents dont know anything about this...and whenever i go out they ask a million questions..(who are u going with...where...wht time...to do wht...with guys or girls...etc) should i actually tell them its a date.... Also i dont know if i like the idea of going by ourselves...she might not feel as comfortable....but i cant just say "if you want why dont u invite **** and ***** to come along" it will seem so weird btw **** = her friends names. suggestions plz....

ok the girl i like was pushin me to tell her who i like(mainly happened over the weekend)... but yesterday her friends came on a bit strong askin me who i like... and then she apoligized to me for it and told me that her friends wanted to set up a date between me and her and thats why they keep after me lol(but nothin happened becuz i kinda ignored them..it was in the middle of the hallway and she was yellin "do u like her" lol)... and today i thought they were gonna ask me about goin out with her for a date but nothing happened.....so i was wonderin if she felt she came on too strong AND today they came late to school...so maybe they didnt get time to question me lol... If they do ask me wht should i do.....i like the girl they keep askin me about but....should i just say yes and feel ocward around her...another thing is that 20 other ppl will prob instantly find out...

thats what i was thinking tooo.....im so confused of what to do...... will see what happens at school today....

The girl i like and her friends keep asking me who i like....i kinda lead the girl i like on.... Her friends want to set up a date between us..(im happy) but when they ask me at school wht should i say..."ok fine, i'll go" or should i tell them thats the girl i like????????? HELP ME PLZZZZ Thanks in advance

after she guesses its me or i tell her....wht should i do??? Should i say "so...you wanna go see a movie this weekend?" another prob is my parents and her parents...were still 15 so......lol

ya thats wht i thought.....going through her friend would make her think im not confident.... thx everyone thats commented...keep'em coming

also ....should i tell her friend that i like her......of course this is b4 i tell her...maybe she can help me but than on the other hand does it make me look like a wuss...

should i just keep hintin her until she finds out its her...or should i just tell her straight up...i wouldnt mind going out sometime(easier said than done)

ok...i like this girl...we're friends, not best friends but friends I also know her friend.... Recently she has been really pushing to see who i like....so i lead the girl i like on....and now she wont stop...then today she apolizged for her and her friends for being so pressuring....I felt bad becuz this girl is the girl i like and she is the same person who wants to find out who i like...lol OK heres the weird thing....she told me that her friends want to set up a date between me and her...They are prob gonna ask be about it tomm and gonna keep askin if i like her or wanna go out with her.....wht should i do and ALSO should i tell her friend who wants to set up a date that i like the girl....does anyone think that may help me out ..????

the prob is that she hangs out with her girl friends alot and on the weekends we were talkin and she mentioned how she was always busy.....

Daisy20 thanks for ur idea.......and everyone else for ur answers Im 15 and i dont think this formal date this will work...i have talked to her bout it but she didnt give a clear answer...... I think i might try daisy20's idea or i might ask if she wants to goto the movies or hang out sometime.....

I like a friend i have known for a couple months....She is always asking me who I like.....WHAT do i do...just tell her i like her??? Help me plz

This girl I like has said a couple things that I do are cute...btw i dont think she knows i like her... Some things are...play with my 4yr old niece...help out my mom in the kitchen...etc... Her saying that those things are cute, is that a good thing or bad thing? ALSO i was standin there with her when she told two of her friends that i help my mom and shes like "isnt that so cute?" and i was just standing there speechless....what am i supposed to say?????? Thanks everyone in advance for helping...

ok thats what i thought....that i shouldnt just ask her on a date....another thing is that her friends and other friends that are girls ask who i like all the time and say they can hook me up...should i tell them or will it just make it worse ....btw what signs can i give to show that i like her while we are hanging out....and if she doesnt invite me should i ask if i can come along or how can i join in....becuz she seems very close to her friends but then i dont think she minds havin guys around... AHHHH im so confused.

I like this girl and im not sure if she likes me or not... Im new to this, i havent had a gf or date b4. I dont know what to do....do i just ask her out?? It seems kind of ocward... I have known her for a couple months now and have been progressivly talkin more and more...she is one of those girls that always is hanging out with her friends(I know her closest school friends)...today we went to the science centre as a school trip and her friend invited me to come with them...so i went along with 4 of her other girl friends. It was fun... OK so now back to going out with her....so how do i go about this??? do i tell her i like her and see what she says...or ask if she wants to go out sometime....or ???? I dont know....someone plz help me Thank you in advance

sasari ... and all the other ppl thx.. ya that where i hear it...always said in my high school. if anyone knows anymore terms...plz let me know thx

i think i kinda got the "fresh" one....its something to do with having sex with a girl... but the chopping one is still confusing

I need help...My friends are always talkin about how they chopped a girl or ask me "What if this girl wanted to get fresh with you?".... Im usually clueless as to what they are saying and just try to avoid it...can someone plz explain these terms and any more they may know... THANKS

hey...im in the same position as you...

I always hear people saying, that he was flirting with her..etc. What exactly do they mean...this may seem pretty nooby but its better to know, then not to Also if i want to flirt with a girl to show i like her...what do i do??? Im a complete beginn, but i like this girl and wanna know wht to do...

I follow what you're saying..let me give you a bit more detail. I have known her from last yr, she was also in one of my classes. We talked mostly about school. Some random times we would take about other stuff. But mainly we wouldn't talk much. She is into talkin with her friends ALOT (3 very close friends she ALWAYS is talkin to). Alot of ppl have mentioned to just go and join into their convo, and get to know her friends. This is hard becuz u know how girls always have their girl talk, i just doesn't feel right if i just start following them around while their talkin. This morning her and one of her friends were sitting talkin by my locker...so i went to my locker and said hi and after i finished takin stuff out i just sat beside them..we talked about the guy she liked and she asked me if i think he was cute(i said i couldnt answer that then her friend said to her.. theres still 10min b4 school starts lets walk around. I wanted to join them in their walk but felt like i was entruding since i wasnt invited. Ya so after being off topic for a while going back to me and her, i usually talk to her about school, then dont see her during lunch...she always goes out wit her friends...and after school again i see her one more time, but there are always other ppl around. One question i have is that the guy she likes is in Gr.11 (I think), she doesnt have any classes with him and sees him rarely in the halls, unless she goes out of her way to see him. I THINK she doesn't talk to him or know him( even on a friend basis) Is it common for girls liking guys they don't even know. One more, is that could she be doing this and telling me so as to pressure me to ask her out...becuz even last year she told me who she likes...though it didnt work out for them??