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Girl giving signs of attraction but has a recent boyfriend!
GN replied to GN's topic in Dating Advice
Its really hard to say the whole situation through this. This guy is someone i know through school, so he is a friend but not a good friend oranything like that. She said she liked him a lot as friends then on a drunken night out said she liked him more than that, but she's not sure she does or whether she liked their friendship so much she thought it would be a good idea. Well anyway, im gonna wait for her to make the moves. If she really likes me, she'll leave him but im not gonna say anything to her about it -
Girl giving signs of attraction but has a recent boyfriend!
GN replied to GN's topic in Dating Advice
I'll take that as a no-go then -
Girl giving signs of attraction but has a recent boyfriend!
GN replied to GN's topic in Dating Advice
That is a very good point actually, friends dont act that way f they are just being friendly. But i dunno about the taking her out bit. I guess we could go just as friends, but it may seem a little weird. Im good friends with her boyfriend so i dont think it will be a problem wih him. I guess i'll see how stuff develops, thanks for your help. Anyone else got a view on this -
Im not sure where to begin, but if this isnt enough information let me know and i'll post what you need. Here goes: I am part of a close knit of friends (There is only two blokes in a group of about 8 or 9 of us - all 17/18 years old). Recently, i have become better friends with a girl from this group and we text each other a lot, chat, go out a lot (in a whole group) and i have been going round her house quite a bit aswell. Now fairly recently (Within a month or so) she seems to be showing a lot more interest in me. I was round her house today, and she was giving me signs that she likes me such as: touching my arm (does playing a tune on my arm a number of times, laying all over me, and poking my stomach when i was sorting out my belt with my shirt up count as an attraction thing?), she complimented me (I really like your belt), she asks me questions (stuff like how was your day etc, obviously nothing too inquisitive cos we pretty much know most about each other anyway now), she has asked to make future plans (Specifically shopping in a couple of days - she asked me) and major eye contact. My predicament comes because a couple of weeks ago she got a boyfriend. Now this seemed to me to put her out of reach, but when i first asked her about him she said she wasnt sure if it was what she wanted and she still seems a bit wary and uneasy when talking about their relationship. What i would like to know, and hopefully you guys can answer: Is this girl interested in me or are we just good friends?
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Thanks for the advice. She apparently isn't really with this other guy, they have been on a couple of dates but so far its just friends. I really feel like giving her the cold shoulder you speak of, but i know that would just be immature and stupid. I dont want to lose her as a friend, i just want things back to the way they were before anyone had feelings for anyone really.
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Hmm, 44 views and no replies. Ah well, im gonna give up on this one. She can do whatever she wants, i just don't care anymore.
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Ok, well to get the full story you can read these two topics i have previously posted and i will carry on with this on with a brief summary. link removed link removed Well one of my/her friends saw how down i was getting about the situation and confronted this girl about how she felt about me. It turns out she doesn't like me how she though, and just want to be friends. Well ever since then, we basically havent been. I dont speak to her hardly ever (Same school, same year) and its just so awkward with her now. I recently found out she is sort of seeing someone, which i was extremely upset and angry about. I was not angry that she was with someone, after all its her happiness i care about, but angry that she felt she couldn't tell me herself (I found out from a friend from school, everyone else knew but me). Now the problem is i see her looking at me and giving the same signals as before really. Im confused because i dont know whether she is staring because she wants us to talk more (I have tried but she just sort of shrugs me off) or whether its more (which i completely doubt). So does anyone know what i should do?
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Ok, well i just got back from the trip and nothing happened. There really didnt seem to be a spark between us. Last i heard she really liked me, but she did not show it in any way during this trip (God i tried to give my feelings away, but felt as though i was getting the cold shoulder everytime). Do you think she has reconsidered and decided she does not want a relationship with me or something else? P.S Im going out with her and the same people i went away with tonight for a meal, do you think i should let her make the decisions or come outright and ask her how she feels?
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Well, on the point of cup sizes (and i am the most inexperienced person in the world) but i believe it really doesnt matter. He obviously finds you attractive because you are together, so your breasts cant be that bad. I personally love the idea of cupping a small breast, you can get bogged down in a triple D size or whatever they are lol. Hope i helped.
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Thanks for your honest help man. I guess your right. Too many cooks spoil the broth as they say (though im not sure thats actually relevant here lol). I shall wait and see how it all goes, i believe in fate so if its meant to be it will be. Thanks again
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Ok, so i have recently let my feelings out about a girl and i think we are on the brink of going out (see this topic for the full details link removed ). Well we are going away with some friends on Monday-Friday and i plan on making it really romantic to ask her out. But i have never had a girlfriend, so have never kissed a girl before. Well, i want the first kiss to be extremely special and not to just feel like we should kiss because we are going out. So my question is: How do i make it a really special and eventful moment in our relationship without making myself look like a complete amateur and without putting pressure on her to make her think we should kiss?
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Lol that is a brilliant idea! Well we are going away with 8 other friends (who all know we like each other, and planned to set us up while we were there anyway) for 5 days next Monday so i guess i can see what happens then. Staying in the same apartment could make for some entertainment
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Im sorry to double post, but does anyone else have any help on this situation because i really need your help.
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Sorry, i meant to say. When i went to speak to her after she apparently found out, she was still somewhat confused about the whole situation. I did present my feelings to her then openly and clearly so she knows from me how i feel about her. Sorry, my fault i should have said that.
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Lol that simple huh? Well, seeing your post, its made me think that maybe she said what she said so it didnt feel like she was the one making the move on me (Ya know how girls love to be chased). What does everyone else think?