Blondee

I need your advice. Have a wonderful longterm relationship with this man for several years now. I'm in love with him and our feelings are mutual, great time together, chemistry etc. Well, it's not always been so perfect and we have overcome and been thru much together. Learned alot along the way, working thru old relationships, the old girlfriends calling, X wife calling etc. Well, the last several months my green eyes have surface more then once causing me to look insecure and you know.....needy etc. In the past these issues have been overlooked by him but I pushed too hard this last time. Started getting controling and possesive. Then it snowballed and insecurity led to me nagging him & nagging & more nagging.. Now, I know he loves me yet Ive pushed him so far that his behavior has changed towards me, getting cool, distancing himself. Kind of treating me disrespectful. When I asked him about it he said he feels the same way about me, in love with me and just dosnt want to talk about it anymore. Yet, I can tell this has really come between us. What can I do to recover quickly? I feel him slipping away and dont want to let go. Ive given him space and I almost feel the more space the farther he goes. If I'm there he forgets the stuff and we seem better. What can I do to at this point for a quick and speedy recovery to get back to where we were. Suggestions please.

Lets turn the tables and ask if a guy cares how much money a women makes? If you love a women yet know she cant afford to pay would you opt to stick it out with her or would you opt for the women you arent in love with but has lots of play money. I am talking about a relationship and not a one nighter of fun? Who would you pick GUYS , love or money? Blondee

From a womens point of view.......Believe me, save yourself and get out while you can......the next thing you know you will find yourself infatuated and then in love, what then?....A hell of a mess! If you are confused now, just wait until you really have feelings for her. Distance yourself, keep your pants zipped and think about your wife and children. Nothing can come from this but pain, confusion and a life of hell. Speaking from experience I know. Best of luck to you. Blondee

Hi Storm, I came accross this board, my first time here. I just read your post and it could be mine. I am in the very same mess. I will private message you.