i agree with ocean...summin' i'm trying 2 do ma self. wen we do go out and if i'm noticing on how ma bf is secretly checking out other females..or jus looking at them...i do the same thing. I'm trying 2 figure out...why stress over it. It aint gonna get me nowhere. even tho we've had this conversation b4..nothing seem 2 change. Ma dad does it all da time with ma mom. Ma cousin does it behind his wife...i think it's basically natural for men 2 look at other women. I get Jealous inside wen ma bf's doing it...but then...wat can i do? i can't stop him from seeing who he wants to. His eyes will see all he wants...there's NO stopping it. sum times, i feel like making ma bf wear a mask on his eyes so he can't see these women but we know that THAT's impossible. LOL. If I see a pretty woman walk past..i'll jus grab ma bf's face and whisper in his ear,"i love u hon." and give him a peck...jus to throw his attention toward me. and it usually works.