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lol, sidhat.. did you post in the wrong thread?

If a girl is going out with someone.. and she knows that you like her.. and asked her to hang out or go on a date.. and to talk on the phone more to get to know each other.. Would she mention that she got a boyfriend to yo (saying that if she had one)? Or should I assume that she's not seeing anyone.. or, she is seeing someone but just doesn't want to mention about him?

I'll try to keep this as brief as possible. During summer, I worked at a restaurant. And during that time, I met a girl there that still today I can't stop thinkin' about her. While at work, we never really talked much, maybe a few hi once in awhile. Although we did get to talk once. After 2 months of being too shy to approach her.. I decided to leave a note on her car's windshield. Next day at work we didn't talk at all, I was too embarrassed to be near her.. and we never really talked still 'cept for the few HIs and what not. On my last day of work, I left her another note on her windshield with my cell # on it, but haven't heard from her. Anyways, it's been awhile now and I still go there to eat once in awhile. And most of the time, I see her at work. Whenever she sees me, she would always go "hey!" or "hey kit..." and smile at me. Now, I'm not sure if I haven't heard from her because she doesn't like me at all. Or just as shy as I am to talk to me, or maybe even waiting for me to be the one that starts the convo with her. I still think about her, and want to get to know her better.. but I don't know how to do this. Should I.. 1. Approach her the next time I see her at work, and asks if she ever got those notes I left her. 2. Approach her and asks her if she'd like to go out sometime. 3. Approach her and asks if I could get her #. (All of the above will be assuming that I'll quit being a wuss and do approach her.) or 4. Take the fact that she's probably not interested and should just try to move on. Any advice would be nice to hear.

Thanks for everyone's comment.

There's this girl that I work with with almost two months now. Anyway.. we've never really talked to each other.... but often smile whenever we look at each other.. although there are days when we dont. But yeah.. like I've said.. she've talked to me once.. and we had a couple one liner talks at work.. but no real conversation... not until last Sunday.. when I was in the break room with her and we actually talked. Although.. I wasn't looking at her too much when we talk.. since I'm shy and it just feels weird for me. She seems interested in what I was saying and all that.. but.. my shyness made it seem like I wasn't interested in her. When I had to leave.. I just walked out and said.. "Bye Jessica" without looking at her and she said "bye..." real quietly. I want to asks if she wants to hang out sometime.. but I don't know when or how I should do it.. plus she has a ring on her right ring finger.. and I'm not sure if it's just her ring or a ring that a guy had given to her... I thought about putting a note on her windshield... but I'm too scared that someone could see me... I want to ask her out in person.. but I fear rejection.. Do any of you have any suggestions or advice?

There's the Santa Ana Zoo... But.. who'd want to go there, right? I'd probably just go minature golfing.. it's fun.. everybody loves it.. even if they dislike golf. The beach is an okay choice, but.. it just seems as if everyone that lives in California would suggests that, so why not just do something different, right?

Does your best friend know that you like this girl also? Anyway, what the guy above my post said was correct. Even if your best friend is okay with you liking her, deep down.. he's probably having horrible thoughts for you if you and the girl ever dated.

Hey, everyone. Just want to let you all know that I'm thankful for your toughts and time on the replies that you've made.. But.. today at work.. She showed the slighest if any sign that she may be interested in me at all.. so.. I figure save myself a heartache and just forget about it. I was kidding myself to think that I might ever had a chance with her anyway.

Yeah, Orange Blood. I apologized to her everytime.

I work with this girl at a restaurant. She's one of the waitress, and I work in the production line. I'm usually the one making the milkshake and other desserts. Anyways.. last week.. whenever I look at her.. I would notice that she's looking at me too and would be smiling. Then sometimes, when she sees me looking at her.. she smiles at me. However.. this week though. Whenever I turn to look at her.. she hasn't seem to turn to look at me back or avoiding me. On Saturday, when I just got done clocking into work. She stopped me from getting back to my station and asked me how to pronounce my name, because she's been wondering about it. So I told her. We didn't run into each other much that whole day since it was busy. But.. when my shift was over.. I went to the server station to get myself a drink, and she was standing beside me. As I leaned over to reach for a straw, I almost fell over and knocked her down. 'Cept, all that happaned was my shoulders leaning against hers. She said that I almost knocked her over, and smiled.. and I just apologized.. Then I went to sit down on a stool to wait for my food.. and I was looking at her.. and as she was walking back to her station.. she turned to look at me and she smiled. Sunday.. I had to do the dishes that day... So I didn't get to run into her much. But, when she was in the back putting away some silverware, I was going over there to put away some containers.. and I kept on having to move back and forth from her left and right. She just stood there with a smile and seem as if she was going to laugh.. so I asked her what? And she just said nothing.. so I just walked away (I'm too shy to hold a conversation). Later that day.. as she was walking.. and she caught me looking at her. She had this big smile on her face... Then.. later.. when she was at the sink by the area where I do the dishes.. I had to put some glasses away.. but there weren't much room between where she was standing and this huge cart where we put the glasses.. so she moved in a little for me to walk through.. but apparently.. there weren't much room and I accidentally hit her pretty hard with the tray that the glasses were in and she didn't say anything.. she just smiled at me.. But then there were also times when she just kept on walking and never turn to look at me.. and then once when she was just leaning against the wall and I was looking at her.. then her eyes met mine.. and there weren't any expressions on her face.. and I wasn't sure what to do.. so I just turn and look away. Do you guys think that she may be interested in me, or she's just a nice person that likes to smile?