Soulsearcher

Thanks guys for all your support. We saw each other and spend 3 days of tour of san francisco and yosemeti park. I think it was a "blast" really. From the moment I picked her up in San Jose we acted like real adults and seems nothing has change even when we were talking on the phone before. As if like we new each other for so long and I never saw the ugliness in her. She's the one and I think looks doesn't really matter at all. I love her sooo much and nothing has changed. We are going to see each other a couple more days this month and I was never been excited like this even before. Even if i combine all my ex's together she did tops them all. I think I found my true love. I have a sense about this before I meet someone if we're gonna last or not. This one is ok.

It's either your mom is obssesed with you or you've been a bad girl before and that she does'nt trust you going on by your own business. Don't get mad of what I just said cause I had the same experience with my mom. When I finally moved out she still was there visiting me from time to time but never was before. Does she have expectancy from you. Are you in a good status in life. Some moms are just nagging even there's really nothing to nag about it may be that she misses how she always do it. Try doing something that she wont' be able to say anything about what you didn't do or what you did. Anyway it's still hard for me to understand this cause I am a guy and it's different (mom-son). Either that you're mom is really irritating. Somtimes only way is to do something stupid which is not adviceable for them to see the big picture. "it's really hard to rasie a parents".-----saying in my country. I used to be hated my own but I cleaned up whether proud or not they still nags..lol

Could she have been doing drugs without your knowledge. Anyway depression is not normal and not seasonal either. It could have not been drugs or just something that really traumatize her that would make her act differently. If that had been going on for more than a month I would recommend or at least find away to get some phsycological help. If she does spit you out. I'm pretty sure that she knows what you've done for her and she'll have you back. But for know comfort her talk to her all the time for their minds to not wander around. They need someone to be there with them. I've been here before and I'm out.

I'm 27 and she's 26... maybe it will take time for me to get this childish behavior of my skin. I know that looks doesn't matter at all and sometimes it really does. Maybe my family expects more but that doesn't stop me ending up with who I want. Maybe in time I'll learn to appreciate what I have infront of me.

I met this girl on a chat room about a month ago and she seems nice. I fell in love with her at that time up to know. She's gonna visit here in San Francisco and I'll be in charge of the tour for 3 days. We're sort of in a long distance type of thing. Not sure if this would even work out but I'm hoping it will. My problem is that she has all the qualities I want in a girl and maybe even more. Except for one reason she's not what I expect her to look like when I saw her on a PICTURE. I told my self that looks does'nt matter or is it. We're both on a peak of our careers and If it was perfect maybe we could go far more than she could imagine. It's only been a month but we seem to have this spark that we never seem to get tired even talking on the phone for hours everyday. Of all the women I had before she tops all that in short period of time. We really did connect in a chemistry sort of way. I love her too except for that difference. It seems a big deal to me or am I just being selfish and childish on my own. Even she has everything I want I can't see myself beside her for a very long time. Does looks really matter or its the mature love that I've been so willing to grab that I cant focus on. Who doesn't want to be with a beautiful, corporate and raised with family values kind of girl(she's still a virgin except for the beautiful. I dont want to regret it someday and break up with her. The other half of me says get a pretty girl and make her your bestfriend We both talked about this and she's kinda fine with it if another person comes between us. That gives me an advantage but I'm her first love besides the virgin thing and breaking her would be hard for me and her or should I. I need both sexes opinions.......