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Exactly! That's really odd - you're in the same situation as me!

Hi all, I begun seeing this girl around a week ago and since we've hung out together nearly every night. I found myself calling her when I'd had a few drinks on Saturday night cause I knew she would come and then I had someone with me, after all I have spent so many nights out just wanting to have someone with me, not to pick up. So anyway, I know she is keen on me and I know this could go somewhere but right now I just don't know if it's fair to even try as I don't have strong feelings yet. There is a possibility I may move interstate at the end of this month which would end it definitely but should this have been worth it I could try to stay. I think my main problem is I was hurt by a girl a year ago and I don't think I have had enough time to get over her because in my head I say I don't want a girl friend but immediately I think, what if my ex asked to take me back - I would probably consider it. Does this sound familiar or make sense? or cents Thanks in advance for your thoughts.

Thanks again for the response. I sent her off a brief email saying I heard some news she had somethings stolen and told her to stay safe. She responded telling me some things about her trip so far etc. she forgot my phone number so said she couldn't message me when our footy team defeated her brothers! Can't look to far into that sort of thing though. I replied once more bringing her up-to-date with me. Will have to just go with it, but for some reason I feel a little better (odd) but I still miss her alot.

Diverp from a guy perspective I can tell you my ex girl friend had an un-tonned tummy, she was such a beautiful person and opposite to yours wanted to work on her body even more - I just told her I will run with her etc. for a fun thing to do together. As for your girl becoming paranoid despite your attempts to re-assure her you're happy with what you've got it should be enough! Good luck!

No problem, I appreciate your curiosity and thank you! There is no real reason for me to move, my parents both live inter state so it's an option for me to move there and start afresh, I don't have any problems where I live, I just see it as an opportunity and thought I would consider it as I see nothing here for me. There is definitely no hope of us being together until she comes home which is in December, and even then I don't know (as I haven't spoken to her for 4 months). I don't understand the bold part - sorry! I guess I say hopeless as a weak excuse, I have tried to move on I have been with other girls and even have a girl interstate who likes me but I don't see in the new girl or any of the girls I have been with what I want, only in the one I can't have (right now, if at all). Your part, in love with her or the idea is a great question, but well - she's not perfect, but she is just what I want and I haven't come accross that in anyone else - she tought me so much, without even trying. I know she will talk to me, she has never once turned her back on me despite my somewhat upsetting moments, she has understood and she too was upset with our break up - sometimes more upset with how much she was hurting me than how much it hurt her. (she said). You're right she may have changed, I guess by contacting her is the only way I can find out - but it's hard to put it on her as she is so wrapped up in what she is doing overseas and how (once more) busy she is. I guess I will have to wonder if she has thought about me, she told me a few times previously that things reminded her of me, but I didn't know if that mean things all the time or just that she wouldn't even think of me and something may remind her of me. Thanks again.

Hi Ang, I have only been in the boat of dumping 1 girl - to be honest, she was awesome in bed and a great person, but we were only together for 1 month (if that makes a difference) and to this day I have never regretted it.

Hey all, I broke up with a girl over a year ago now, she went overseas and we haven't spoken now for 4 months, the last time I basically told her not to contact me because even though she was overseas, she was flooding me with emails - with no hope of being together I just told her to stop it. Now I want to contact her again cause I keep thinking about her and still want her, she returns later this year but once more there is still no hope or indication of us being together again, I might even move away also. Should I bother? She still means alot to me and any email I write will just ask how she is and stuff but still I want to tell her how I feel, even though I have before. Thanks in advance.