thegoodgirl04

Hi everyone, I just ended a realtionship with a guy who would lie to me about very little things (and probably a few big things that I never found out about). I cought him lieing to me the first time when I was looking at his phone (he was right there) I nioticed there were two names above me (the same name as mine) when I asked who they were he said "your other numbers" which turned out to be a lie when I checked his phone later because I was suspicious. While checking his phone I figured why not look at his text messages. There I found that he asked a girl out to dinner while he was dating me. When I confronted him abot this, he said it was no big deal and that he just wanted to smooth things out between them (be blew her off when they broke up), he has a very hard time letting go of ex girlfriends and would alwyas bring them up in everyday conversation (so and so works there, so and so used to do that) it gets a little old after a while, like it was me, him and all the other girls he ever dated in the relationship. then he lied to me about staying at a motel when he was drunk with his brother, he said he stayed at his parents house. I cought him in the lie when the motel sent the receipt to the house!! Kmow I',m not sure if he was cheating on me (although I'm sure it sounds like he was) but why would you lie to some one about such stupid things if you weren't and they weren't such big deals? We were to be engaged but how could I marry someone that lies like that, when I talk to him he still doesnt get it and tries to blam everything on me???? I already ahve trust issues, will I ever find a guy that is trust worthy and will show me the respect that I deserve???

Your right Jeff, after what he wrote to me I went and checked out Michael2's other replys and they were great!

Thanks Michael2, you hit the nail on the head, thanks for making it very clear!

Hi Everyone, Let's see if I can explain this in a million words or less!!! Anywho, I was seeing a guy for about a year we were off and on. In the beginning we were very happy and we were even talking marrige. Then the summer came and so did the fighting, then one weekend he took off and I really hear from him again until that Sunday, when he broke it off with me. So we broke it off for about 4 months and we started talking and seeing each other every so often, I was afraid to get back involved with him for fear of being hurt again. He called me one night and said he loved me so much and couldn't bear the thought of spending the holidays with out me, I missed him too and we got back together, then the crap really hit the fan, i kept catching him in stupid lies, like I found the number of a girl that he dated before still in his phone (she has the same first name that I do) and I asked him whos number it was and he said it was mine Thanks!