MacyDavis Posted April 23, 2018 Share Posted April 23, 2018 I have a problem that I need an opinion on. I can’t say I love u to my parents. I love both of them a lot but for some reason I just can’t say it. I know it makes them upset when I don’t say it back but I just feel uncomfortable with it. I also have a problem with showing love and affection. I know I’m being mean and I don’t want to be but i always end up shutting down whenever my parents try to get feelings out of me. They are great parents and have given up everything so I can live a good life but somewhere along the lines growing up I learned to oppress my feelings and now I just can’t get myself to say it because it just feels awkward and out of character. It has been going on since I was about 13 and I just recently it has really effected me because I know they aren’t going to live forever. Link to comment
melancholy123 Posted April 23, 2018 Share Posted April 23, 2018 How old are you? My parents never told me they loved me. I knew my dad did, but he never said it. My mother was another story, I dont think she ever loved me. I'm sure at some point (probably as a little kid) I told my dad I loved him, because I really did. I doubt I ever told my mother I loved her, because I didnt. So, I can appreciate your conundrum. I dont know how you make yourself say something that doesnt feel natural, I just want you to know you are not the only one with such an issue. Link to comment
MacyDavis Posted April 23, 2018 Author Share Posted April 23, 2018 I am 17 and preparing for college has really just made me realize this issue. Link to comment
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