KG2019 Posted July 8, 2019 Share Posted July 8, 2019 We started our relationship when I was 17 years old. He was all I knew and now that our relationship is over I am losing my shxt. I really wish we could still try to make it work but he has made it very clear that he will never want me back. I have begged and cried! I miss him so much. How do I fill this hole? I still have hope for us. I want to be patient and let time heal me but I feel so lonely. 10 years of my life and we still had forever. Link to comment
KG2019 Posted July 8, 2019 Author Share Posted July 8, 2019 He is 7 and half years older than me. Link to comment
Lester Posted July 8, 2019 Share Posted July 8, 2019 Did you finish school/college? If not, that would be the first and best place to start. Btw, begging and crying almost always has the opposite desired effect. Link to comment
EclipseCross Posted July 8, 2019 Share Posted July 8, 2019 I know how you feel. I was in relationship with my boyfriend (the first love) for more than 8 years. We broke up 6 months ago and I was devastated, I felt like I lost more than 8 years of my life, I felt worthless. First two months were really hard, I cried a lot, ate unhealthy, felt so unhappy, because he went out and enjoyed the life. Just like you I swore to myself - I will be patient and I believe that there is still hope. And you know what? Time went by and he didn't try to communicate with me at all (except on my birthday) and one day I was like "well, I don't need this". I continued studying, started to work, started to spend more time with family and friends. I'm not saying break ups are easy, but with every day it gets a little better. Good luck! Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted July 8, 2019 Share Posted July 8, 2019 Sorry to hear this. Are you separated, divorced, still living together or estranged? What are the reasons the marriage/relationship is ending? Try to reach out to friends and family but also consider some short term therapy to help sort things out. I really wish we could still try to make it work but he has made it very clear that he will never want me back. I want to be patient and let time heal me but I feel so lonely. Link to comment
KG2019 Posted July 8, 2019 Author Share Posted July 8, 2019 I have a really good job. I will not beg anymore because I am just hurting myself. Link to comment
KG2019 Posted July 8, 2019 Author Share Posted July 8, 2019 I hate to have hope because I feel he will never come back to me and this feeling eventually will pass but I really wanted us to try again. And once I stop thinking of him or needing to want to be with him. He will just be another person, stranger. I hope I recover fast and start living my own life. Link to comment
KG2019 Posted July 8, 2019 Author Share Posted July 8, 2019 We have separated and no longer living together. He moved out with his mom. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted July 8, 2019 Share Posted July 8, 2019 You need to consult an an attorney so you won't get blindsided in the divorce. Also a therapist to help you navigate all this.We have separated and no longer living together. He moved out with his mom. Link to comment
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