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For Valentines day i'm going to be in school all day and my girlfriend is going to be in work so we are actually celebrating it the day after because the day after also happens to be our six months. Just because im not going to be with her on valentines day i'm having rose's and a teddy bear with a message sent to her work. Then the next day I plan on taking her Ice skating in the Boston common and then to the Olive Garden for dinner because she loves that place haha. By the way I did get her a present a day at the spa at this place called "Bella Sante"

right but its not that shes not in the mood I just need to back off and wait for her...

Okay so i've talked to her and i've figured it out... she doesn't want to fool around all the time because it is too leading for her into sex and she doesn't want that until shes married. She even said she would never move in with a guy (im talking in the future) because it would be too tempting... but I told her I was fine with that and I would never pressure her into it.

I guess my question has been answered... I guess I was just wondering if sometimes not having anything to talk about is a bad thing but I guess it happens and thereforeeee it is not.

Is that why you guys broke up?

and that bothers you?

Hey just wondering does anyone else out there have trouble with phone conversations every night. I talk to my girl every night for anywhere to a half hour to an hour but we see each other everyday in work... Just wondering if this is okay, shes okay with it and so am I and when we're together face to face we're constantly talking I just have trouble with the convos over the phone.

thanks, and good idea.

no, the relationship is great but I think she is just afriad of love. Her longest relationship was 10 months and she's never fallen in love which is fine im willing to wait and work for her and yes I do feel as if im falling fast but im not going to tell her because I don't want her to be freaked out so i'll let her come to me. Thanks for all the advice everyone it seems very clear now. By the way I am 20 and she is 19.

Well like I said... not sex heh she's a virgin and she wants to wait. So its not an option, and NO WAY I will absolutely not break up with her because she won't hook up with me I enjoy spending time with her and talking to her much more. To me there IS much more to a relationship than the sexual side and like I said I can deal. The way I figure it is maybe just maybe she wants to take that part a little slow because it might rush us into sex and she doesn't want that yet. Plus we've been dating for 4 months on friday and the "love" isn't there yet as far as shes concerned even though i've done everything for her and taken her out and treated her like a queen so many times. She says im the best boyfriend shes ever had but she sure doesn't prove it in that way but its not a big deal. Like I said I can deal until shes ready but... I guess this question goes more for the women on this forum but would you like it if your man spoke to you about this? just to see what your feelings are? or would you be offended and second guess the relationship?

The other night I was trying to get my girl in the mood and she said no.. she didn't want to get "all riled up before bed" so I didn't do anything, and then last night I tried to get her in the mood again and she told me not tonight again, just so you know its not sex just playing around like fingering its kind of aggravating but I can deal with it i'm just trying to find out the reason why... is she not physically attracted to me anymore?

Thanks for everything... we do go out though we've been out to movies, dinner, comedy shows, family parties and soon some go cart racing hah so yeah I think things will be cool

All me and my girl like to do is watch movies and nightly shows together I mean we do go out sometimes to do fun stuff but we mostly just hang out. Now i've had girl friends of mine who have told me that they are getting sick of their boyfriend because thats all they do is sit around is it possible that we could be different? I mean I have fun and shes not complaining but I just want to know if everything is okay like this. One more thing is when we talk on the phone its for like half an hour to an hour per day we're not really talkers on the phone but in person when we see each other at work we'll talk constantly but on the phone its not much any suggestions on that?

you're right... I need to chill lol thanks again for the advice...