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It's great you're on dating apps setting up dates. That will help get your mind off of mr hot player. It fills the void when you meet available decent guys. Try not to focus this much on just looks.

Sorry this is happening. Are you moving into her place? It's great you get along well and with her child. Hopefully she has strict court ordered custody/visitation and child support. This helps organize things and is best for the child if there was unstableness and abuse in the past. Don't worry about this guy. Please speak to her about better boundaries. Especially since you are moving in together.

Your only recourse is to ask him to move back in with his parents until he decides what he wants. That's the only leverage you have. Otherwise you're just begging and arguing about the future, his job/city, etc. Please don't move or sell your house. Reflect on his stance about it's over if he moves because he doesn't do LDRs. Please talk to trusted friends and family who have helped you along the way.

It seems like he prefers just coasting along for economic, household and sexual convenience.

Please don't make all these sacrifices for someone who is not committed to you. Why throw your life away on someone who wants to "experience" a new city. That in itself shows he wants to be a free agent and has some type of fear of missing out. He's being combative when you try to talk to him about your goals and needs and that's not a good sign.

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Sorry this is happening. Unfortunately his timeline is just a stalling tactic, but you seem to know this. Please don't give up your whole life to "follow him" . He's not interested in any type of commitment. Is this the same man?

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Sorry this is happening.. 10 months is the getting to know you period and you've already had a lot of conflict and breakups. Unfortunately there seems to be a lot of logistical problems regarding location, her child's father and her family. You seem to be rushing things talking about marriage after only 10 months and trying to force fit this situation. Please step back and take your time getting the logistics worked out.

Sorry this is happening. Unfortunately you two want different things. She seems to want a trustworthy exclusive relationship, but you claim you can't offer that. It's ok if she thinks about it because there's been too much wear and tear. She knows your contact info so try to step back and see if she wants to resolve things.

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Sorry this is happening. What does your family think of him and his attitude? Can you visit them privately and confidentiality explain what is going on and how he treats you? Are there other issues in the marriage such as finances, children, household chores? What was marriage therapy for? Does he have issues with health or bad habits such as drinking? Please stop trying to fix him. Instead go to therapy privately and confidentiality for advice information and support.

Sorry this is still happening. Please understand that you're not his doctor and "caring too much" isn't a good thing when you lose yourself in a relationship. Even though you're trying to understand the ASD, it's not an excuse to be mean and nasty towards you. Perhaps it's time to reflect on why you're in an unhappy relationship rather than trying to fix and change him and trying to rearrange yourself around someone who treats you poorly.