A Slow Dance Through Uncertain Times

It's an age-old dilemma, one that we've all asked ourselves multiple times throughout our lives; Does she like me and should I go for it? The question is both complex and simple at the same time. On the surface, it's a straightforward query but it can bring about a multitude of feelings and fears that are not as easy to decipher.

In any situation of this kind, the most important thing you can do is be honest with yourself. It's seldom a matter of black and white when it comes to matters of hearts. Humans are remarkably complex creatures and it is not always easy to truly understand why we find ourselves in certain situations in life. Knowing yourself and being true to your own wishes can go a long way towards finding yourself in a situation where the outcome is, at least to some degree, desirable.

The first step is to look inside and work out what it is exactly that you want. Are you looking for a companion or a friend? What qualities do you feel make this particular person special that you can't find elsewhere? It's all too easy to become caught up in the here and now, but it is important to consider the bigger picture. Are you ready for a relationship? Would either of you benefit from a friendship? Then again, would there be potential for but more?

Often, external signals may appear to be present but, in truth, you never truly know what the other person is actually thinking - even if they seem to be interested. Taking into account the quirks of non-verbal communication and trying to read between the lines can be a tricky business. You shall have to hope that, if the feeling is mutual, you won't have to wait too long to discover the answer you desire.

Of course, if neither of you make a move then nothing will ever happen. This is a classic case of putting your love on the line, as it were. It can be nerve-racking, but if you believe it could potentially be worth it then don't let fear prevent you from taking a leap of faith. Life is a journey and, even if it doesn't work out between you and this particular person, it could still result in amazing and unexpected opportunities presenting themselves further down the line.

As a general rule, honesty is the best policy. Speak from the heart and tell them politely how you feel. It may seem intimidating but, often, casual conversation between two people can eventually turn more meaningful as we get to know someone better. It's an uncertain world, but in the very least a person deserves the respect of open and dignified communication.

Sometimes, regrettably, things don't turn out the way they were intended or hoped. Don't be discouraged, however; life is full of twists and turns. The future path can be unwavering, but anyone has the power to create their own destiny. Don't forget; you only have one life so make sure to live it to the fullest.

No matter what direction you may choose in terms of love and affection, you can always be sure to remain cautiously optimistic. As the saying goes, love comes when you least expect it, and if it isn't meant to be then variations of beautiful happenings could exist elsewhere. Don't let doubt freeze you in your tracks, take it slow and observe the movements around you, you never know what could come from the darkness.

From the stars to the skies, life's little mysteries will eventually reveal themselves in their own sweet time.