i did the same mistake again... fool again

[White Rider]

hey

i did the same stupied mistake again, i fell in this girls love and its obvious that she doesnt think of me more than a best friend thats if she thinks of me as a best friend at all,its not the first time i do it, im so stupied, what im i supposed to do???

help

[Progressive]

Dont worry mate, it's not just you. I think at one point or another most people get caught and do that.

*I*'ve just done exactly the same thing. Spend ages thinking about it, pluck up the courage to tell them how you feel and *pow* you get the "think of you as a good friend" line. It DOES hurt and it is a hell of a setback but in a way its a good setback (go with me on this one for a minute) - they are still there, they are still your friend and even though you cant be together as a couple you CAN still be there as friends!

 

So, i suppose in a way, you havn't lost anything AND you haven't gained anything either.

 

Ok, i suppose its not much use as advice or anything but its nothing that YOU do, if you look back, the board is full of people saying they are attracted to thier friend and should they tell them or not. I suppose in some freaky land KNOWING and being able to move on is better than sitting around going "do they...? dont they..?" all the time?

 

im shutting up now

[persephonesleeps]

at least you know the truth

some women will string you along forever just for the attention...and you would always be wondering and waiting

maybe she knows someone you'd like?