tonyL Posted February 28, 2007 Share Posted February 28, 2007 hi there, firstly im so glad i found this site! its really great, been lurking and reading stories for the last few days. now i feel the need to tell mine. My girlfriend of 3 years told me last weekend she wanted a break after an agruement. I protested at this (quite childishly i suppose) , but then said ok thinking a couple of weeks not seeing much of each other might be good for us. then a few days later she told me she wanted to break up, she said the relationship had gone stale and she wanted out and that we should just be friends now. this was pretty horrible for me, i put a brave face on not wanting to create a scene. anyway ive seen her a few times like normal i supose and ive been trying to be nice and cheerful and show her im a great person (so she might reconsider) which is nice when im with her , but when she goes and its a time i would have been seeing her i feel really sad. Also i believe she is starting to see someone elese. ive asked her and pleaded to tell me if she is , she says shes not, but is going round a guys house i never heard of before every night! I really shouldnt even ask her this stuff as i cant bare the thought of her getting with a new guy and feeling so powerless to get her to see me like that again. its only been a week and i think about her all day planning when to call without looking too sad to her, and sometimes i just start crying out of nowhere like just now when i was cooking. I feel really lonely now and all i can see ahead is pain if she hooks up with another guy Quote Link to comment
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