love to hatred....

[cant-stop-loving-her]

basically, it started a crush a few years ago..

 

we got a little closer in the past few months and i though i loved her with everything i had..

 

but she was with a bf (and still is..) and though we didnt talk about it, she knew that i knew about her bf..

 

but now, i just dont know why, i am starting to hate her sooo dam much that i dont even know what i may do...

 

its not cuz of not being together..

i am ok with being friends, butshe doesnt talk as much,,,

[sidehop]

Maybe it's the attention you're not getting? Because she doesn't give you what you want doesn't mean you should feel that way. It's better to let go sometimes and just be friends. If you're still friendly but keep the contact minimal, she may one day start talking to you again

[kate111]

I'd try to remember that anything she is doing to this boyfriend she will probably do to you.

 

ie if she is not being faithful to him then it will probably happen to you.

[cant-stop-loving-her]

she si not being unfaithfull to her bf - as in we aernt doing anything wrong..

 

we just talk a bit.

but i cant stop reaching out and touching her (only patting - not serious touching..) and she just sort of takes it but she hasnt reached out towarsds me..

 

but, like i said, i'm happier as a friend..