martial Posted February 3, 2007 Share Posted February 3, 2007 Hi all, well after a 7 year relationship we broke up 5 weeks ago. I do not want to be back with her I just feel betrayed cause she told me we were breaking up cause she wasnt happy with who she was and that she needed to find herself. and she couldnt do that being with me or anyone else. and now she has a new guy. Who by the way is 4 years younger(I am 27 she is 26 and the new guy is 22) Rebound maybe? (She said he is very in touch with his emotions and gives her emotional support to which she is attracted. She even said its weird cause he isnt her type of guy?) She fel obligated to tell me he has stayed oer at her house for the last 3 nights but they have only kissed and cuddled. She assures me they havent had sex) She wants to take it slow and went so far to even say to me that she doent even know what it is and where is will go but she does like him alot.) She says I am important to her and she want me to be her friend. She does still care about me and she says she will always love me and they we will always have a connection. But I cant turn her off.....I feel so rejected and betrayed and that I wasted 7 years for someone I thought I knew and turns out I dont know her at all.. How do I just forget abut her and put her outta my head. I am doing NC but her thoughts consume me.. Any advice? Quote Link to comment
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