jerryhalla Posted January 30, 2007 Share Posted January 30, 2007 after 3 weeks of NC, my ex gf of 5 years and I talked yesterday. it was a friendly conversation and I didn't bring up anything about the past. All of a sudden she says "how is you life without me?" I replied its fine because its the truth, it is fine. Then today I get a text asking if she could drop of something for my bday which was 3 weeks ago. Not sure what to do. Why would she want to drop something of now and not before? Link to comment
rocio Posted January 30, 2007 Share Posted January 30, 2007 because she was doing nc 3 weeks ago. accept it graciously but don't get too close. how do you feel about talking to her again? are the feelings still there? do you regret breaking up? Link to comment
jerryhalla Posted January 30, 2007 Author Share Posted January 30, 2007 no she broke it off with me. I feel strong and feel like I've made great strides on focusing on me. I'm just confused about these recent events. Also she text me on my bday so she wasn't doing NC, she never wanted to, I was the one that started the NC. Link to comment
DN Posted January 30, 2007 Share Posted January 30, 2007 Why don't you ask her the same question? If you get the sense that she just wants to make sure you are missing her then say no (some people don't like the fact that an ex is fine - they prefer it if the person they dumped is miserable because it strokes their ego) But if you get a very strong sense that she may want to get back together then you can decide if you want to take that risk. Link to comment
bubbles07 Posted January 31, 2007 Share Posted January 31, 2007 whoa I don't know what to think about that one, sounds confusing Link to comment
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