jerryhalla

no she broke it off with me. I feel strong and feel like I've made great strides on focusing on me. I'm just confused about these recent events. Also she text me on my bday so she wasn't doing NC, she never wanted to, I was the one that started the NC.

after 3 weeks of NC, my ex gf of 5 years and I talked yesterday. it was a friendly conversation and I didn't bring up anything about the past. All of a sudden she says "how is you life without me?" I replied its fine because its the truth, it is fine. Then today I get a text asking if she could drop of something for my bday which was 3 weeks ago. Not sure what to do. Why would she want to drop something of now and not before?

Yeah I'm not banking on them coming back, just curious to know if it is possible seeing that a lot of people say that once a woman has lost her feelings for a man that they never get them back. I always hear stories of men going back to woman after they have told them they don't love them but I've never heard of woman going back to men after they said that they don't love them. Thats why I'm curious to know if it happens or not.

Hi dated a girl for 7 years, and recently we broke up for me because she said that her feelings for me are more like a friend than a boyfriend. She said she doesn't love me as a boyfriend no more. Can her feelings for me come back if I keep it NC? I know NC is for me and that it won't bring her back. I just want to know if it will enhance the chances and make her miss me which in result may make her realize that she does love me? Also has there been any sucess stories of people in similar situations where the dumper told that person they don't love them? Espcially where woman have felt that way.