fleur-de-lis Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 Day 3 I cried myself to sleep yesterday, I wish he was different, I want so much to take him back... but he hurt me too much. I really don;t want to see him right now, I want us back to the point where we were happy together...if only I could erase what had happened... Link to comment
TijuanaJones Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 Entering day 19 of NC The weekend was pretty good, on friday got a text msg from my ex, giving me her new cell ph number and hoping I was fine. Friday night she "coincidentally" went to the same club I was in (I didnt see her, but a friend of mine did). Saturday fun with friends, sunday fun with friends... but an hour ago or so I started to feel terrible (I went out with two friends and their GFs)... I miss the hugs and kisses... Link to comment
luciand Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 So day 3 passed pretty fast. Did a lot of studying and then enjoyed myself at a party. Played guitar hero II there and meet a lot of cool new people. Doing pretty well now that I'm not getting any texts/messages. Link to comment
Tshwane Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 Enter Day 8 The weekend was pretty cool, went out for mini holiday with colleagues and my ex girlfriend(not the one who brought me here). Link to comment
Jason1080 Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 am I still qualified to sign up? i am already a week and a bit into NC. also, it isnt rly NC since we go to the same school and I see her almost everyday, but we dont talk. Link to comment
Pisces_Princess Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 Just signed the agreement on my new apartment!!! So now I am free...just wish that it felt better. Had a busy weekend and getting in control of my feelings which feels good. Went to an art exhibition with a friend on Saturday night and bought 2 paintings for my new place. My ex would hate them but I think they are fantastic! Have not contacted the ex since I told him that I had found an apartment and that I would be moving my thngs out soon... He text me this morning it said "Hi, how are you? When do you move into your new place? Ginger (our cat) in doing fine and is eating again and is very vocal as well xxx" I messaged back and said "I will be collecting my things on Saturday." Unless he says let's work things out then he has nothing to say that I want to hear, so I am staying NC XXX Link to comment
honeyspur Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 Congrats - that is exciting news! Be sure to tell us what the place is like once you move in Link to comment
fleur-de-lis Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 I want to call him right now ](*,) ... got to stay cool, the urge will pass... Link to comment
Pisces_Princess Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 Hi Honeyspur, It's a very modern loft apartment in the centre of the city! x Link to comment
papalazarou Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 Hi Honeyspur, It's a very modern loft apartment in the centre of the city! x Sounds great! Which city out of interest Pisces? Link to comment
Pisces_Princess Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 Hello PapaL, Manchester my dear... So if you are ever heading North let me know x Link to comment
papalazarou Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 Oooh I was in Manchester for a conference a couple of years ago and I have to say I was impressed by how clean it was compared to somewhere like London (sorry Londoners). I must go back there one day. My mate at work studied at Manchester Uni and he said there are some top nights out to be had! Link to comment
Pisces_Princess Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 Well I am originally from Canterbury but did my degree and masters at Manchester Uni and never left! (well except when I lived with the ex in Liverpool)... X Link to comment
Parsley Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 Ah, I love Canterbury, always makes me think of Christmas, we always end up going there for the random market things! Do you miss the South at all? Even a little? Link to comment
Parsley Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 Aw And Canterbury isn't even that bad, at least not compared to where I live. Or is it that Manchester is just fantastic? Link to comment
Pisces_Princess Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 I just really like it here and I moved here when I was 18 so this year will be 17 years so this feels like home now! x Link to comment
papalazarou Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 People who come to Brighton also find themselves staying for alot longer than they planned!! My mate lived in Canterbury for awhile and he wasnt very complimentary about it! Link to comment
BONO Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 Oooh I was in Manchester for a conference a couple of years ago and I have to say I was impressed by how clean it was compared to somewhere like London (sorry Londoners). I must go back there one day. My mate at work studied at Manchester Uni and he said there are some top nights out to be had! Easy pal !!!! Scruff ( London ) Link to comment
Parsley Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 Ah I see. Are your family near you? There's loads of places I love, but I don't want to be far away from everyone. Even Portsmouth was too far, and I live in North Kent! Link to comment
honeyspur Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 Hi Honeyspur, It's a very modern loft apartment in the centre of the city! x Ooooooh you are so lucky! A loft in Manchester (gets all dreamy eyed) haven't been there in years, but I did love it. Hmmm....maybe you'll have to post some pics? Link to comment
Shaker Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 So good to hear you guys are doing so well. Hurrah! Beginning of Day 4 i feel...disillusioned? for some reason, i really liked being around happy couples once in a while. it gave me hope. yesterday, one half of a 'happy couple' was coming on to me. it felt awful. i have zero tolerance for cheating these days. the ex hasn't been in touch with me. i haven't been in touch with him. i still love him. i still love me. today, my plan is to work as much as possible. throw myself into it (i was restless last night and awake until almost 4am working). Link to comment
Shaker Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 Are you guys still snooping on your ex's emails? Does it make you feel better or worse? Link to comment
Shaker Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 Another question: the longer I've gone with NC, the greater my chances are of hearing from my ex. I'm afraid of hearing from him next. How do you brace yourself for the inevitable emails? (It's a bad cycle because as soon as you start feeling accomplished, temptation rears up!) Link to comment
Pisces_Princess Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 PapaL, Canterbury was OK...nothing special. Never been to Brighton but heard good things about it x Parsley, Yes my family moved to Howarth (home to the Bronte sisters) so they now live on the bleak Yorkshire Moors x Shaker, curiosity always kills the cat...NC means no snooping, prying or anything x Link to comment
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