chai714 Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 Meet a woman. Have a good time. Get my first kiss, stick my arms out and twirl on the hilltops like Julie Andrews. Other than that, nothing much. My good friend is in a very similar position as you are. I can tell you this - your future with women is dependent on becoming action-oriented. Start small then go big. Conversations, hanging out, kiss, then more. It helps to not fear rejection too or even offending a woman. Link to comment
Kyoshiro Ogari Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 Kyo, I'm gonna be in NY in two weeks.... P.S. I've got 100% of my teeth. We should meet up for coffee or orange flavored tang. Link to comment
the_ironist Posted January 6, 2007 Share Posted January 6, 2007 Well i've had a crappy new year's start. This girl i went out with tried it on with my best friend and after finding out i told her how pathetic she was, but things are tense between me and my best friend, we aint talkin right now, another argument with another friend too. BUT, apart from all the studies etc im doing (which are keeping my mind off everything tbh, im doing a Masters in Modern History, kinda tough) My new Years Resolution is like a continuation to rid myself of shyness. I got my first girlfriend last year and at the age of 20 its kinda late , but i started to get out of my Shy SHell, and i hope to do so for the remainder of this year. Link to comment
Alabama Posted January 6, 2007 Share Posted January 6, 2007 Good luck the_ironfist! Hope you succeed in getting over your shyness! Link to comment
Kevin T Posted January 6, 2007 Author Share Posted January 6, 2007 I guess I belong to the "get over your shyness with the opposite sex" group, too. I've been super-shy with attractive women (only attractive women though lol), and it's got to stop. So I've resolved to do all that I can to fix this problem with chicks once and for all. I always said I'd do "anything" to fix this problem, yet I was never willing to do the work and put myself out there. So I only had myself to blame... but enough is enough. Last year was the LAST year I spend whining about being single. I go to a nice school, with tons of beautiful girls, why not start there? lol Good a place as any. Link to comment
cpc28655 Posted January 7, 2007 Share Posted January 7, 2007 I think im going to give myself another year before I get back out there. Link to comment
AnotherBrokenDoll Posted January 7, 2007 Share Posted January 7, 2007 I have a few small ones, though i know alot won't work. No letting guys intimadate me. No doing whatever someone you like says just because you can't stand to be rejected. No more flinching over a guys touch. No falling apart over guys/girls. And last no dating for at least the first 6 months. (That will be the easy one lol.) Link to comment
afonselaca Posted January 8, 2007 Share Posted January 8, 2007 Feel the fear and do it anyway. No more fear of rejection. Link to comment
Kevin T Posted January 8, 2007 Author Share Posted January 8, 2007 That's good advice. Link to comment
iwishiknew Posted January 10, 2007 Share Posted January 10, 2007 My resolutions for this year 1. To get a gf for the first time 2. My first kiss 3. Have a relationship Link to comment
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