She mumbles I love you

[caasiopia68]

After i tell her i love her she mumbles "i love you"

does this mean anything?

 

she acts like she does love me and she has said it many times she just... urgh i dont know.

 

 

thanks

[Cloud802]

Maybe you're just being paranoid, I mumbled it sometimes too.

[lydia87]

it may be that it's something she's not used to saying, or she's shy to say something like that.

[laboheme]

I've been guilty of mumbling like that at times, too. I'm the kind of person who likes to say it and MEAN it...not just as a response to what he said. But if he says it, I had to reply to be polite...Of course, I don't mean to say that I didn't really love him when I mumbled it back...they just weren't the moments when I could look him right in the eye and honestly pour out my heart. Then again, I had those moments when I wanted to say it over and over and over again and it still wouldn't be enough.

[yeawutever]

Yea saying I love you" esp. if it's your first time saying it to someone other than your parents of other family member does sound weird at first and thus you're not so use to it.

[AnotherBrokenDoll]

I agree she may be shy to say it. Those words are pretty powerful. Maybe she is scared of getting hurt... Ask her thats the only way to know.

[silentalways]

hi there again [lol]

 

 

 

i just wanted to leave a note just in case [i know, i know - just go will yah]

 

 

 

i have really looked at every issue and problem that has reared its ugly head and i am extremely proud of the fact that even though i have been thru a ton of stuff [and recognize if i have felt this way my ex would as well] - there is a huge difference now because i WILL NOT BE THE WHACKED, WHINING, INSECURE, LOSER, PENIS HEAD BOI EVER AGAIN

 

and i have set up things and an action plan to ensure i get over that first little hump - then its gravy time

 

 

 

all this to say simply, and directed to my ex CAG

 

 

 

you know i will always love u

 

you know i believe u do love me

 

you know my situation - i cannot contact u because of reports

 

i would love to see you again, i miss u

 

you know that i have told u all u have to do is BELIEVE and that's it

 

you know that i had hoped to marry you and for us to live together

 

you know that if we ever do met again - we do not discuss the past just relax, chillax then have sex [teasin] we would simply return to the common-sense people we were - and that means, simply there is no need to think of expectations - i think after going thru what we did - its time to give each a break and stop hurting

 

you know that i there is no pressure to met and as much as going home right now and hearing yer voice on my answering machine would make all the diff, i know i am probably taking to ghosts in my head again so - i am stopping

 

i want you to realize how far we have come, we already did the hard stuff, now the reward is u and i sharing a triple triple and maybe some night just checking out a band or concert

 

u know where i live - i have no idea where u do

 

u have my phone number - i have no idea what yers is

 

u probably have email and home comp - i have neither

 

i have no idea if u even bought a house - lol if yes, you looking for a roomie? wink

 

and last but not least - if you do not want any of these things - that's ok - but i am moving forward and u know how much time we lost already - anyhooooooooooo

 

 

 

 

 

hugs and kisses

 

 

 

 

 

so, i think that should be clear enuff, everyone agree?

[Ripples]

She doesn't love.

[yeawutever]

She doesn't love.

 

Not neccessarily true, maybe it's her first time saying that. It does take a while to open up you know and saying those words is if you really mean them, those are intense words. Did took me a while to say them back to b/f, but I did, gotta admit I was very shy at first. Before, whenever he would say it, I would hold back and only say "uh, ok, yea me too". B/c when you're a first timer on syaing it, the thought of possibly getting hurted, rejected in the future goes in your mind a little bit and the fact that you never really open up in your life.