Too much information but I need your advice

[shoebaby1]

Sometimes when I do the deed, when my boyfriend pushes it in all the way it hurts..not like sever pain but its uncomfortable a bit. Is this most likely because he is too big?

[obscurity]

It could be because you have a yeast infection, or infection of some type. Is he your first? In the beginning it hurts more then if you've had sex more. Definitely go to the doctor and check it out. It probably has nothing to do with size.

[shoebaby1]

we've been together for like 3 years and its mostly in the beginning of us doing it. I don't have a yeast infection it feels more like pressure.

[agent1607307371]

He could be hitting your cervix, but it sounds like you need a bit of time to, I hate this phrase, loosen up a bit. Possibly try more foreplay and really making certain that you're ready and relaxed.

[obscurity]

Hm... in the beginning there is always more pain.

[shoebaby1]

and yea thats true, it mostly happens in the morning when we first wake up and there has been no foreplay.. he can hit my cervix?

[agent1607307371]

If the angles are right. It needs deeper penetration, like woman on top and can be fairly intense - feeling good or bad depending on the womans tolerance.

[gift from the gods]

i had that with my boyfriend....i dont know the answer really.... i was thinking i had some kind of infection but i dont. You just need to make sure your ready to have sex (physicaly "lubricated"

[shoebaby1]

I know this is a weird question to ask here but, could there be a possiblity that something is up there like stuck, or would I know that..I don't ever remember leaving anything up there, I am pretty good about that but would I have any red flags if there was something stuck up there so embarrassed that I have to ask such a stupid question!

[Deviant_Kate]

and yea thats true, it mostly happens in the morning when we first wake up and there has been no foreplay.. he can hit my cervix?

 

As you become aroused, your cervix lifts to leave ample room for penetration - if you aren't "prepared" beforehand, he CAN hit your cervix. I don't think it's any big deal - it just hurts a bit until your cervix lifts. I have the same problem sometimes.

[Bloomer]

Hello. I have the same problem. On me it hurts because it is hitting against my bladder (must be the way I am designed) and often leads to cycstitus. I have found that trying slightly different angles with my hips whilst having sex seems to help. I did once go and see my GP about it but they said that it is just like that with some women and that I should try positions that don't hurt. Having said that, as previous posts have mentioned, it's not all the time so perhaps it's something to do with this cervic lifting business.

[unface]

and yea thats true, it mostly happens in the morning when we first wake up and there has been no foreplay.. he can hit my cervix?

 

Foreplay opens your stuff up... Guys with big wangs can't neglect the warm-up. Tell him I said so.