women confuse me

[SW]

A few weeks ago the girl I was seeing ended it because she didnt see any future betwwen us. We get along great have a lot of fun together and have lots in common. I was honest with her ,I told her I liked her and wanted to pursue a reltionship with her. Then I stopped calling her , I didnt plan on talking to her anymore.

 

The last time we were together she wanted nothing to do with me. She would move away anytime I got close to her..Now she is sending me emails with kisses in them? I am confused.

[Layword]

Then what's the problem? Move on my friend, she doesn't care about you as a person. She cares about HER interest, you should care about yours. Why give 100% to someone who won't even commit 10%. You'll find a girl that'll give you 300% hang in there mate, cheers~

[Ellie2006]

Hey SW,

 

I am a woman and what your ex did confused me too

Unless she a) gives you a logical explanation for why she acted the way she did when you visited her last time and b) expresses her full committment to making things work w/ you, then I agree w/ Layword: you should cut your losses and move on ...

 

On a separate note, what do YOU want? Do you want to try again w/ your ex? If so, ask her to explain her past behavior. If NOT, then NC?

 

My two cents worth.

 

Take care!

[daletroN]

from my experience it's because some girls just like to know that they can have you, without actualy committing to you. i guess just like guys.

 

dont fall into her trap and just let it go, she's not worth it