Pain in abdomen

[miewcasey]

Hi,

I had an intercourse 1 day after my periods ended. Now I feel swollen just bellow my bellybotton. We didn't use protection. Could it be that he went to far and went into my cervix, or is this a sign I am pregnant?

Thanks,

[CarnelianButterfly]

If he passed your cervix it would have been the most painfull sex you've ever had.

 

What have you been eating, it might be gas.

[miewcasey]

hi,

well it was painfull but it was my first time too. I did bleed but isn't that normal?

I havent eating much, I have got sick, cold, about two days after.

[Relationship Coach]

The chances of getting pregnant the day after your period ended is very low. Your pains can be from deep penetration or as CB implied gas. The lesson here is, use a condom unless you are trying to get pregnant!

 

RC

[CarnelianButterfly]

You should wait a week and take a pregnancy test just to be sure.

 

If you haven't eaten, it could be cramps and gas. How is your liquid intake? If you haven't drank much either, you will be likely to have cramps as well. Drink Gatorade and soup.

[Relationship Coach]

hi,

well it was painfull but it was my first time too. I did bleed but isn't that normal?

I havent eating much, I have got sick, cold, about two days after.

 

He may have busted your hymen.

[doyathink]

It was painful because you were a virgin. Most women experience pain the first time and it can last for a couple of days.

 

btw, a penis can not 'go past' your cervix without causing you a great deal of pain and damage. You would not be able to handle the pain if that were the case, it would be intense !

[BeStrongBeHappy]

the cervix is quite closed naturally and the uterus very muscular, strong enough to push out a baby so no way could his penis push through and enter your cervix... HE would have been in so much pain it is just not possible. the vagina itself is very flexible and expands to accommodate a man's penis.

 

you might have been stressed and afraid which leads to tightness, also pain from breaking your hymen the first time can be intense so that is probably why you were in pain...

 

however, if the swelling doesn't go down and you have any form of discharge, you might have gotten a bladder infection. most likely though it is just gas from something you ate, food poisoning, or the stomach flu, and just a coincidence that it happened after sex...

 

try taking some anti-gas medicine like Maalox and see if it goes down... if still in pain in a couple days, i'd see a doctor.

[BeStrongBeHappy]

btw, pregnancy takes a long time to show, usually a couple months so that wouldn't explain it at this point... but you really do need to use protection, just to be sure... sometimes periods can be irregular, and you don't want an unexpected surprize!

[Hope75]

Hey-

 

Any reason for not using protection?