in love with 2 girls

[lil_baby_girl]

ok, I'm in love with two girls. I don't know what to do they both love me back and they both love each other. there trying to talk me in to doing that three way marriage time thing but i don't know. i want to but then again i don't, when i talk to them both i get all happy and hyper and i feel like i just cant breath, is that normal? i don't know what to do. i don't even know were a three way gay marriage can be done or even if it can be done. I'm right now only engage to one. the other one keeps asking me but i have not answered her yet. i don't know what to say I'm scarred to say no and i really want to say yes. i just have not been able to say yes the word just will not come out. i guess what I'm trying to ask it what should i do i love them both with all my heart and i feel like i cant live with out both of them.but i dont really think i can keep both of them and have them be happy and thats really all i want is for them to be happy.

[NKP]

Hey wow just stop right there hey, you are only 16 hun, you DONT need to think about get married yet, you have your whole life to get married you are still young. As for having 3 in a relationship well i am sure there will be alot of problems happening. Have a break from both of them, and YOU need to make up you mind who you want.

 

BTW why do you want to get married for so young? You dont need a piece of paper to prove your love, your heart does that.

[lil_baby_girl]

BTW why do you want to get married for so young?

i can get easy emancipated if i get married for one and for two i love them so much i want to prove my love to them.

[NKP]

Yeah but you are only 16 anything could happen between now and when your 20

[lil_baby_girl]

idk what to do im already engage tho to one of them and i really do love her and i dont want to lose her or the other girl.

[NKP]

You can only get married to one, have a break from both of them, until you have dicided what one you love more and the one you want to be with. You need to make up your mind or soon you might end up with no one

[lil_baby_girl]

thanks for ur help it worked i had a break from both of them and i found out who i love more thanks.

[mdog]

this might be a stupid question but since when can you have gay marriages?

[lil_baby_girl]

but since when can you have gay marriages?

im still looking for somewere were there is gay marriages i have not found a place yet but theres got to be somwere out there that has them.

[NKP]

thanks for ur help it worked i had a break from both of them and i found out who i love more thanks.

 

I am gald to hear that, thats great. And as for the gay marriges yes there are places around, just keep looking, plus you only 16 you proberly wont get married til your lke 18 right so you have penty of time

[SkylinesTurnstiles]

Well im actually sorta with this group that is starting to help legal gay marriage.

 

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Go there its really good

[lil_baby_girl]

sorta with this group that is starting to help legal gay marriage

thats cool thanks for leting me know

[SkylinesTurnstiles]

And its in the U.S that there doing it so yeah . You should sign the petition

 

And why do you have to get married so young?

[lil_baby_girl]

And why do you have to get married so young?

i dont have to get marriedso young, i want to get married young, for like 3 deffent reason 1 i love her and i dont want to lose her,2 its the only why we can live together. 3 it gets me away from the family that hate me and in to a family that loves me.

[PinkFlame190]

i dont have to get marriedso young, i want to get married young, for like 3 deffent reason 1 i love her and i dont want to lose her,2 its the only why we can live together. 3 it gets me away from the family that hate me and in to a family that loves me.

First of all...congrats on finding someone you love. Not many people find that at 16. What you said is very convincing (meaning good points) I'm not gay but I do believe that you love this girl and that you are dying to get away from your family. But keep this in mind. Say you do get married RIGHT NOW wat then? you legally cant be on your own (you still live under a gardian until your 18) anyway. I know that you are afraid that you are going to lose her and Im sure the idea of marriage is really great but your idea of love may change from now until your like 20. Who knows? you may and up being together for life but i dont think its a great idea to rush into something soo extreame as this. If she really loves you, you won't lose her. But remember this is your decision. And I think i speak for everyone when i say that i wish the best for you.

[SkylinesTurnstiles]

What do your parents think about this marriage?Do hey even know you two are dating?

[lil_baby_girl]

What do your parents think about this marriage?Do hey even know you two are dating?

my parents dont know about the marriage and no they have no clue we dating, i hate my parents my parents dont know anything thats going on in my life right now and they never will.

[SkylinesTurnstiles]

Ohk so how has it been going latley?

[lil_baby_girl]

so how has it been going latley?

things are going not good. my ex found out i'm geting marred and me and my gf played a treak on my ex and her gf and now my ex want to kill me

[NKP]

Dont worry about ex, just have fun with your gf now and enjoy every moment yous are together

[lil_baby_girl]

enjoy every moment yous are together

i will be sure and do that.

[SkylinesTurnstiles]

i will be sure and do that.

 

Yay thats good

[lil_baby_girl]

thats good

ya it is good,

[angelbomb101]

Gay marriage has been legalized here in Canada! WOO!

[lil_baby_girl]

Gay marriage has been legalized here in Canada

sweet thanks