Thoughts, Mum and the ex

[SkylinesTurnstiles]

Hey.Well i hope this is the right place to post this but yeah....

Well ages a go well a couple of months but for me its been ages i broke up with my boyfriend and im happier now with a new boyfried who is humane and doesnt scare me or pressure me , a religon with a really acepting church , and some great new friends that i wouldnt trade for anything but now i am totally over him but i still somethings think aboput like say when i hugged him i get really guilty feelings ( like in disgust sort of-ish) like why did i fall for some one like that and also my mum somethimes to my dislike he comes up in our conversations and mum says how she misses him and how i broke his heart and etc (shes ment to be on my side like im glad your over him hunny)

 

Its really fustrating because i am over him and trying to get along with my new life but my mum and my thoughts bring him up often but i havnt done anything wrong have i?

I keep thinking i have! i gets me down and makes me really really quiet (which is different for me ) but still can any one leave any stories or advice for?

thanks

[ZoeMatthews]

I will only tell you this (from experience)...Do what is best for you. Don't do ANYTHING that you think is going to please anybody else...if you, you will never be happy.

 

Good luck.

[skyjuice]

Hi

 

It is you who choose who you want to date. Not your mum.

 

It is your life, don't let anyone dictate what you want to do in life.

 

It is very important.