Beyond confused. . . again.

[ConfusedasEVER]

I don't know if anyone remembers my previous post, but I'll run it by really quick.

 

Broke up with the x-girlfriend about 4 months ago, found out she was maintaining an emotional relationship with someone accross the country. She moved out, took all of her things and we spoke on and off for the first month and a half after the breakup. Following a small ... fling, she broke off all contact and began dating someone else.

 

 

about 2 1/2 months go by, and I hear nothing from her. Basically NC forced upon me, although I really had no desire to call her, even though I mourned for her very deeply and wanted to get back together.

 

So, about 2 weeks ago, I get a strange text message at midnight, ''hey, do you want your hats back''. I replied no, and went along with my business. We got in a small fight about a week later because her mail keeps coming to my house, and I told her about it. Well, the day I told her about it, she said she'd pick it up, but never showed up as she said she was going to. .... So about a week goes by. This past monday, she text messages me. . . ''I found a lot of your paperwork, do you want it''. Now, I know these should be normal occurrences... but to me they seemed immediately off-color and out of the ordinary. I told her yes, and that I'd swing by and pick them up. An hour later she texted again and asked ''Did I leave a copy of my college recommendations letter there?'' So I figured, oh she probably was looking for that and came accross some of my stuff. But something still doesn't feel right about the whole thing, especially since now all of a sudden she's contacting me for all of these things. I mean, normally, I feel, and a lot of other people do.. that these are things that are taken care of shortly after a breakup, not 4 months later. I don't know what to do at this point.

[SuperDave71]

Confused,

 

 

 

YOU DON'T READ INTO IT....let it be.

 

You are reading into this because you miss her. Everything seems to be happening at once but you are taking this as a sudden interest.

 

 

I would give her her stuff...get yours. If she calls again or texts....its because SHE WANTS to....not because hse HAS to.

 

 

Relax...do nothing but answer the questions.

 

 

 

-SuperDave71

[ConfusedasEVER]

You're right superdave. It's hard to not try and find double meanings sometimes, but I guess when you care about someone you automatically instinctually do that.

 

I didn't really read into it (at first), but it struck me as so bizarre, well.. unexpected actually. I don't know. ;-( I guess I find it hard to believe that after all this time, (especially after some of her antics - she was semi-emotionally distant, selfish and very immature at times -- but I still loved the cheeze doodles out of her) that the thought would even cross her mind that I want these things or that she has anything over here.

 

 

Oh well.