Pleasee,tell me your opinion,it's important to me

[ShaKe__]

I've been with my boyfriend for 1 month and a week.Things weren't going bad,except that we almost always went out only with our company(group of people) and rarely the two of us.Then at first people told us we weren't paying much attention to the others in the group,so we agreed to fix that.But it went in the other direction-he stopped paying attention to me at all(like yesterday people didn't even know that we have a relationship) and after talking with him and no effect,I stopped paying attention too.He got mad about it and yesterday at the party at my place he started flirting with a friend of mine and they were playing and fooling around all over my bed.My friends were looking shocked and wondering how could he do that.Then my friend just asked "did we cross the line?" and my boyfriend just "is something wrong?".I can't stand someone treating me this way so I decided to dump him today.Do you think I'm overreacting or do I have a point? What would you do if someone acted that way?

[Serendipity1607307077]

Dump him NOW.

If he is that stupid to blatantly disrespect your feelings like that, AND in front of your friends, then he is not worth the trouble.

And I would also ditch your "friend" who fooled around with him as well. Real friends don't do that to each other..

 

Good luck with it, and stay strong.

[ShaKe__]

Thanks for supporting me (hug)

It's just that I prefer solving problems than just finding an easy exit but I think this is just too much..

[Serendipity1607307077]

In the end you have to do what's right for you.

 

For instance, what might seem like harmless fun now, might eventuate into something more heavy later on... like, he might think it's ok to cheat further down the track into your relationship...

[DN]

I think you should talk to him and say that you need to spend time together as just the two of you and that he did cross the line.

 

Try not to take so much notice of what your friends think.

[Scotcha]

He fooled around on YOUR bed with YOUR "friend"?? Don't just dump him, dump them both!

 

In the future I'd be suspicious of any guy that stuck to a "group date" kind of things for over a month.. I don't get that.

[arwen]

Oh dump him before things get worse. Messing around with your 'friend'? Blegh! I agree with Scotcha, dump her too. He sounds way too immature for you. If you dump HIM, you can walk away with PRIDE girl!!

 

Let us know. You find a WAY better guy that this.

[Honey Pumpkin]

Personally, I would confront him (and friend!!) about their behaviour, and probably dump him - but make sure as DN said that it's because of what *YOU* felt about it, rather than the reaction of your friends, if you see what I mean.

[annie24]

yeah, I agree, a lot of your relationship seems to revolve around what other people think. this doesn't sound healthy.

 

yes, talk to him, tell him he crossed a line, and if you feel that he make a geniune mistake, and he feels badly and want to try again, do so, but spend more time as a couple alone.

[Fallout]

Slap em, kick em, punch em, dump em, put em in garbage bags, throw em in the trashcan, roll the trashcan onto a busy highway, set the light stops to red on the trashcan's path.