this love isnt healthy

[hurtwou]

ok well i met this guy months back, he has a daughter and he was married before, but there getting a divorce soon. I fell in love with him, and its sickening...we sleep together everytime we get to hanging out.; i know he cares about me, but i did so much for him and he just doesnt want a relationship. I dont know why i keep waiting for him when i know for a fact he will never be together...hes a playa and i know this, but i just cant let him go and i dont know why...i know im better then this but i keep setting myself up for the heartbreak...what do i do? he really is a good guy deep down but just confused i guess.

[rightfromthestart]

maybe u should ask carnak the all knowing. think i saw him/her earlier

[agent1607307371]

I don't think he's confused, I think he knows what he wants and is getting it.

 

You have to distance yourself from him and be strong. You say you fell in love with him but he is not in love with you. You must value yourself enough to not back into this situation if it hurts you.

[Ms. Babydoll]

You need to keep him away from you, push him out of your life, otherwise you'll never be free from him. Maybe start NC and whatever you do don't go back to him because you know you're just setting yourself up to watch yourself fall.

[bluesky4ever]

The way men and women see relationships is very different. It is in both our nature the following: we women are more "emotional" and men are more "physical". Don't get me wrong, I am not saying that men have no feelings or that women are all emotional, it is just that is a tendency that we have. It is in ourselves to try to make a balance, or not make it at all.

 

I am not one to judge since I am in a situation similar to yours, but just be careful not to get hurt anymore. Neither of us know as a fact how are we going to react to different situations, until it happens to us.

 

Wish you success with any decision you make.

[southerngirl]

Sounds like you are being used for sex.

 

Cut him off. Tell him no more nookie unless its a committed relationship. YOu have nothing to lose but sex.