CTRTL Posted September 22, 2006 Share Posted September 22, 2006 I had sort of a strange encounter at work last night. A girl came in to pick up an order she had placed, so I rang her up, gave her the order, went through the normal thanks for ordering/have a good evening spiel, and started filling out some paperwork. I happened to glance back at least a minute later to find that she's still standing in front of the counter, staring right back at me. Confused, I momentarily return to my paperwork before approaching her and asking, "Did I forget something?", to which she just replied "no" and then she grabbed her pizzas and walked out the door. I'm hoping someone has some insight on this, as I don't know what to make of the situation. Was she checking me out? Lost in thought? Waiting for me to make a move? I'm going insane replaying this in my mind, so if anyone can help me figure this out I'd appreciate it. Link to comment
sparkle1 Posted September 22, 2006 Share Posted September 22, 2006 who knows... She could have been doing all three!! Sorry it's pretty hard to tell what she may or maynot have been thinking..as we don't know!! i know that is really unhelpful - but i am not sure what more i could say Sorry! xx Link to comment
DBL Posted September 22, 2006 Share Posted September 22, 2006 I think you screwed that up. Maybe she will come back. Maybe she won't. DBL Link to comment
rose2summer Posted September 22, 2006 Share Posted September 22, 2006 She was interested but by you asking if you had forgotten to give her something, Probably made her feel like uh oh, he must think I am staring at him, So next time that happens, smile back and if she needs something, she will let you know, Hugs, Rose Link to comment
chai714 Posted September 22, 2006 Share Posted September 22, 2006 What did he screw up? Nothing in my opinion. Not taking action doesn't mean he screwed up. Prolonged staring usually indicates one of 3 things: 1) Attraction (likely she found you attractive) 2) Aggression (usually seen by two people before they throw punches) 3) Amazement (it's common to stare at people we find unusual in terms of their appearance) Link to comment
rose2summer Posted September 22, 2006 Share Posted September 22, 2006 The 3 A's Chai? Attraction, Aggression, Amazement. I would have to agree with Chai here, but personally from my own experience, I only stare at a guy I am attracted to (if I am single), but to each their own, And everyone is very unique, so it could have been any of the aforementioned Chai brought up. Rose Link to comment
DBL Posted September 22, 2006 Share Posted September 22, 2006 Maybe she was having a seizure. DBL Link to comment
rose2summer Posted September 22, 2006 Share Posted September 22, 2006 Well, if she had these symptoms, it could have been a seizure: Chewing movements Convulsion Difficulty talking Drooling Eyelid fluttering Eyes rolling up Falling down Foot stomping Hand waving Inability to move Incontinence Lip smacking Making sounds Shaking Staring Stiffening Swallowing Sweating Teeth clenching/grinding Tongue biting Tremors Twitching movements Breathing difficulty Heart racing Wow, CT must have "knocked her socks off", good one DB. Rose Link to comment
DBL Posted September 22, 2006 Share Posted September 22, 2006 Some of those symptoms can be a sign of attraction. Chewing movements Convulsion Difficulty talking Drooling Eyelid fluttering Hand waving Inability to move Lip smacking Making sounds Shaking Staring Sweating How do we know if their heart is racing? I think it would be pretty funny if he actually did forget to give her something in her order. DBL Link to comment
rose2summer Posted September 22, 2006 Share Posted September 22, 2006 How do we know if their heart is racing? DBL Check her pulse? Link to comment
DBL Posted September 22, 2006 Share Posted September 22, 2006 Ok what about the "Falling Down" one? I think it would be obvious if she was laying on the floor it wasn't anything to do with attraction. DBL Link to comment
DBL Posted September 22, 2006 Share Posted September 22, 2006 So if she was smelling him...what would that mean? DBL Link to comment
MacGyverRI Posted September 22, 2006 Share Posted September 22, 2006 Ok what about the "Falling Down" one? I think it would be obvious if she was laying on the floor it wasn't anything to do with attraction. DBL Actually, if she's laying on the floor and undoing her pants/lifting her skirt then it's mega attraction! Link to comment
DBL Posted September 22, 2006 Share Posted September 22, 2006 Or she is looking for crack money. DBL Link to comment
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