this might sound crazy...

[kb109]

last night i had this terrible dream that my boyfriend liked another girl. the reason why this has been bothering me so much today is because i had a similar dream with the last guy i was dating and it turned out to be true! he stopped dating me and found another girl that he liked. am i being completely irrational? i need advice...please!!

[AntiLove_SuperStar]

If the only evidence you have of your boyfriend liking another girl is a dream...yes, you are being irrational.

 

If you DO have some hard evidence, you may be in denail but your subconscious is telling you otherwise.

[Meow18]

I think you are overthinking this dream. I mean, maybe one day there's a posiblity that it might happen, but dreams don't tell the future.

 

Sometimes we dream about things that we worry about.. do you worry about this happening a lot?

[kb109]

yes, all the time. i've always been insecure. hes told me that i'm the only one that he likes and wants to be with, but for some reason i'm always afraid that someone better-looking will come along. i know i need to get over this, but its hard when i've been screwed over so many times.

[annie24]

there are lots of reasons you could have dreams like this. like maybe it was similar to something you saw on TV, or saw a movie about a cheating boyfriend, or you talked to one of your friends who is being cheated on. Your dreams may not be an indicator of the future, rather, could just be the side effects of things you've been thinking about recently.

 

is everything with your bf ok? do you have reason to suspect he is cheating?

[kb109]

no, i really dont have reason to suspect he is cheating other than he never picks up his damn phone. but that could be for many reasons.

[Momene]

He probably DOES like another girl and probably likes several other girls. That's actually quite normal. Now whether he likes any other girl enough to cheat or change you is another matter. Now I can't speculate on this because I don't know you or him or know how long you've been together, etc.

 

I wouldn't attach ANY significance to the dream, as people dream the most ridiculous things like I once dreamt that we bought some pet lions from the garden center and they stole our dog's food.

[candy604]

yeah irrational. i have those dreams too but they aren't true.

[bigredvick]

lol my girlfriend dreamed that i had left her in this building for my ex-girlfriend and it didnt make any sense to me. tell him about your dream.