Colls Posted August 13, 2003 Share Posted August 13, 2003 I am recently in a situation where I am trying to figure out whether or not a man i kno is gay. He has recently started to wear a thumb ring! And today i noticed he is now wearing a silver necklance with some kid of pendant on it. are these signs that he is gay? Ive heard aroudn that gay men wear thumb rings.....so just what does everyone think? Link to comment
Smokeycat Posted August 13, 2003 Share Posted August 13, 2003 Just because a guy wears jewelry you normally wouldn't see a man wearing doesn't mean he's gay. my ex had a thumb ring but trust me he is ANYTHING but gay! You never know though...many people don't come out of the closet until they're much older. Link to comment
Colls Posted August 13, 2003 Author Share Posted August 13, 2003 O i wasnt sayin that the jewelry is the only reason i think this. I was just wondering if that is another sign. He is around 38 and just goin through an ugly divorce. he has been seen at gay bars b4, and he said that many gay men find him attractive and their type. I was just wonderin, b/c he hasnt come out yet. Link to comment
segagirl Posted August 13, 2003 Share Posted August 13, 2003 I think instead of gathering all the evidence, just ask him. When you think something is true, your mind starts to play tricks on you...and soon enough...you have yourself convinced. just ask man Link to comment
redangel Posted August 14, 2003 Share Posted August 14, 2003 ya i think he's gay! but to make sure just ask him!!! Link to comment
secret_agent_man Posted August 15, 2003 Share Posted August 15, 2003 Hi! I have to agree with the last post... it sounds as though he is, but you should just ask if you need to find out for sure! I'm going to lock this topic, seeing that everyone is agreeing in pretty much the same way, just to keep from building up single line posts! Hope you got your answers! S.A.M. Link to comment
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