AdriSnow Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 The best way to get over an ex would be stop contact correct. ..........I have this problem my ex works out at the same gym as me and makes it a point to flirt with other women. We broke up, but we were still haveing sex then. He got jelious one day and he refuses to do that anymore. so. I've heard many idea's on how to get over ex's Such as haveing sex with another person. Going on dates or hanging out with friends. Another problem is I don't have many friends so thats a no go. To the part of haveing sex with someone else I having trouble even thinking about it and I can't see myself doing that. I know my ex is F-ing other chicks.That makes me want to. So... Any other idea's on getting over an ex. AND does having sex with someone else even help????/ Link to comment
melrich Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 No, you should never have sex with someone else for motives other than you want to. Having sex thinking it will help you get over your ex is a bad, bad idea. I'm not sure who could have given you that. It will ultimately make you feel cheap and a user. Link to comment
Alezia Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 Stop comparing yourself to your ex. You are both not together anymore, probably for a reason Simply because it makes him happy to sleep around doesn't mean you should sleep around if you don't want to. Take time off to recover, it's not a competiton! Read, work-out, take a bubble bath etc.. Link to comment
lost_status Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 No, you should never have sex with someone else for motives other than you want to. Having sex thinking it will help you get over your ex is a bad, bad idea. I'm not sure who could have given you that. It will ultimately make you feel cheap and a user. I agreee!! Link to comment
2900 Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 having sex with other people helped me get through my break up. i did it more b/c i wanted to though, not w/the intention of helping me heal. i dont know, after my break up my sex drive just went crazy! Link to comment
iamteddybearfeelmecuddle Posted September 1, 2006 Share Posted September 1, 2006 If you don't want to see him, go to a different gym, or go for a free jog instead. I know that's what I'd do, even if I'd already paid up. Link to comment
hulk7280 Posted September 1, 2006 Share Posted September 1, 2006 go to the gym at a diffrent time.. Link to comment
dizzy_bruce Posted September 1, 2006 Share Posted September 1, 2006 it worked for mee. lol. Link to comment
dizzy_bruce Posted September 1, 2006 Share Posted September 1, 2006 100 posts! do I get entered in a prize draw of some sort? Link to comment
rose2summer Posted September 1, 2006 Share Posted September 1, 2006 With sex, you develop an emotional attachment, Many say they can separate the physical from the emotional, But I find that to be very difficult, Can you take on some hobbies/interests, So that you don't resort to hurting youself, After feeling cheap/used by a fling. Hugs, Rose Link to comment
AdriSnow Posted September 1, 2006 Author Share Posted September 1, 2006 You all are so wonderfull I'm sure this entire opperation Has Helped so many people. this site is truelly a blessing! Link to comment
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