vlhs004 Posted August 21, 2006 Share Posted August 21, 2006 well me and my ex broke up at the end of march . .. . i started NC the middle of june and she has sent me 3 texts, 2 emails . .. 1 call and 1 voicemail . .. nothing that i wanted to hear so i didnt reply to any of them . .. the last call was on july29 and i got a text tonight that says "wow thanks for being there for me". .. because when i was trying to get her back i told her that . ..but then i went NC . .. she wasnt there for me when i needed her . . . im sure i would have found out if something bad would have happened or something b/c i know her best friends bf and im sure its nothing like that . .. so i just think shes trying to get me to write back to her or call her . .. what do u guys think? what do u think i should do? Link to comment
annie24 Posted August 21, 2006 Share Posted August 21, 2006 If I were you, I would just be very very very cautious. why did you guys break up? at most... e-mail her and ask what she wants. if she isn't asking to get back together, forget it. Link to comment
theproman23 Posted August 21, 2006 Share Posted August 21, 2006 Well first of all it sounds like she's trying to see if you still have interest in her. I would say just don't respond. Be very careful. I would'nt respond back especially if you hav'nt done it so far. Link to comment
DN Posted August 21, 2006 Share Posted August 21, 2006 If I were you, I would just be very very very cautious. why did you guys break up? at most... e-mail her and ask what she wants. if she isn't asking to get back together, forget it. I agree with Annie - no message from an ex when you are hurting is acceptable other than wanting to get back together, despite what you may have said before. Link to comment
vlhs004 Posted August 21, 2006 Author Share Posted August 21, 2006 o yeah i forgot to add a little detail . .. . she started dating someone else a week after we broke up (we were together for over 2 years) . . . and as far as i know they are still together . . . thats why i havent wrote her back b4 Link to comment
DN Posted August 21, 2006 Share Posted August 21, 2006 If she is with someone else then no contact is the absolute best option. Link to comment
joyce1412 Posted August 21, 2006 Share Posted August 21, 2006 i would stay as far away from this girl as possible. no replies, especially if she's only being pissy in her communication with you. it would be one thing if the text said, "hey, what's up, how are you?" but all she wants is for you to feel badly for who knows what. never respond to someone who only wants to provoke you. Link to comment
theproman23 Posted August 21, 2006 Share Posted August 21, 2006 Yeah forget her, shes trying to keep u open as an option. Stay with NC. Link to comment
Lonelyinasmalltown Posted August 21, 2006 Share Posted August 21, 2006 Yeah forget her, shes trying to keep u open as an option. Stay with NC. That's how I see it too. She's looking to keep you as a backup if things go south with the new guy. Link to comment
poetsheart Posted August 23, 2006 Share Posted August 23, 2006 Keep with nc, especially is she started seeing a guy straight after you... she just wants to see if she can have you anytime she wants by the sounds of it.... nc is hard, but ultimately the best healing way Link to comment
vlhs004 Posted September 1, 2006 Author Share Posted September 1, 2006 just got another call this past sunday . .. didnt leave a message or anything . . .so i didnt return it again . . . its been a weird trend . .. after i started nc . . .i got a message 3 weeks later . ..then it went down to about 2 weeks apart . ..now the past 2 have been exactly one week apart Link to comment
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